"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hidding the perfect smile whlie introducin myself

duffman360

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Tomorrow i will try introducing myself to that girl i see, but the problem is that i can't find a good smile to show i have confidence and i'm not afraid of geetin rejected. i want to say hi but i can't put on a smile that seems real. i have a sort of smile that she will see right threw it aka "fake smile."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dont wory about it my freind . when you go and talk to her . the smile will naturally . come . and you wont even know its there . if u smile to hard it will show if you dont smile at all you will look like a fool . just be cool and the smile will be there to back you up 100 %
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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shes not . shes gona think its cute . lol
u be fine . i thought you said


i have confidence and i'm not afraid of geetin rejected. !!!


anyways . go holla at her dont keep thinkin negative its only gona bring u down more . go and talkto the girl . spit ur game talk ur sh*T get her number and call her later that night speak to her get to know her . see whats shes all about .
 

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it starts with the eye contact
get the good eye contact when you approach and the smile will come naturally.
im always nervious i wont pull off a good smile too but once the eye contact comes i cant help but smile
 
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