Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt said:"Educational material" is about the highest profit margin commodity to sell. It costs next to nothing to produce and the price is whatever people will pay. Big profits attract big sleaze. Anyone trying to sell you a book or cd about how to do something - invest in real estate, play stock market, bet on horses, or pick up girls - should be viewed with caution.
Lol, I remember that guy, he rented yachts and private jets and had his name painted on them, shot the video, then erased his name. And you'd think somebody would've thought it funny that an obviously Hispanic guy has the last name "McCorkle". He and his wife deserve to be in jail for the way they ripped people off. Damn crooks.Bible_Belt said:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/William_J._McCorkle
I bought and worked this guy's real estate foreclosure system in the 90's before the Feds busted him. I probably put more effort into it than 99% of the people who ordered it, and I made just about the sum of money back that I paid to McCorkle.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.