Hickey or bruise?

[Philly2Nj]

**See pic below***

So I'm dating this chick and she randomly sends me a pic of what she insist is a bruise on her right side. I asked what happened and how she got it and she is not sure and thinks it happened during the course of her move. She was in the process of moving to a new apartment which entailed moving a bunch of boxes and some small furniture.
I don't understand how she could have a bruise like that and not recall how she got it.
Do you fellas think its really a bruise or is she lying and its really a hickey? I don't trust her 100% due to an issue in the pass which she lied about and has nothing to do with chatting therefore, I have doubt's that it is in fact a bruise from moving boxes/furniture.

 

[Dingo]

Hmmm.....

Looks like it is on a soft tissue area of the body..... Hard to bump hard enough to leave a mark.

But who knows....

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

She a little chunky monkey lol.

But you know your girl better then we do so I assume you'd be able to tell better then we can.

 

[Philly2Nj]

Hmmm.....

Looks like it is on a soft tissue area of the body..... Hard to bump hard enough to leave a mark.

But who knows....

Never thought of that..Now I'm really thinking its a hickey

 

[grayclif]

Hard to say. I'm thinking she could have rested/carried the edge of a box on her hip (akimbo). Kind of weird spot for a hickey too.

Next time experiment and try and give her a hickey on the other side. Just tell her your trying to balance things out.

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

It's a bruise, it looks too wide for a hickey, which is normally smaller and centerlined right in the middle where the lips have the most pressure. But thats just my opinion. However, the fact that you dont trust her is the bigger picture.

 

[dude99]

Bruise. If it was a hickey she would have done her best to make sure you never knew about it. Not send you pictures of it and draw attention to it.

 

[ZTIME]

Agreed. Why on earth would any girl draw attention to a hickey received from someone else? That really wouldn't make sense.

The true problem however is your lack of trust with this woman. If you have a valid reason to question bruises as hickeys, you may want to consider dumping this one and find someone who could bruise herself unquestioned by you.

Answering your question is easy........solving your problem is a path you must choose.

 

[guru1000]

I just got nauseous looking at that.

 

[dustmuffin]

Looks like a bruise to me. But looking at it from the big picture who cares? Are you exclusive? I would just be vigilant and watch what she does and continue to bang her. Do not become emotionally involved with her and bail if she is disrespectful. What did she do to lose your trust?

 

[The Duke]

Thats a bruise. Its about right where the bottom edge of a box could have rested momentarily. Its more shaped in a straight line like the edge of a box. Women tend to bruise easily, I've seen stuff like this many times before.

 

[Yewki]

If it was a hickey, she would have covered it in makeup and never told you about it

 

[ChangedMan]

Yeah, that looks like a bruise brother

 

[Alvafe]

Bruise. If it was a hickey she would have done her best to make sure you never knew about it. Not send you pictures of it and draw attention to it.

depends some people like to deflect the thing right before it happens, even when its kinda a easy area to see.

but on that spot, too wide to look a hickey, its a bruise, woman normally are easy to get marked like that with small bumps, also it helps to know how much taller she is and the things she had who would mark her on that height

in another note why you are beliving on her?

 

[MrWood]

i find bruises on girls tend to get a greenish hue... not hickeys

 

[DanDanTheDrywallMan]

Definitely a bruise. It's right on her hip bone, which is an easy place to bump, especially if you're moving.