"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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New poster here. Not much time to explain about myself, but I sure do have lot's and lot's of questions. But to start things off, how exactly do you define an afc?

I have the general idea, someone who seeks validation from women or put's them on a pedestal, someone who is needy, tries to win her over with gifts, money,etc.Or a guy with bad/no game, who can't make her panties wet for him?

But what are other traits you define as so, and is it more about getting rid of those traits entirely, or learning to control them? You guy's seem to take the idea and apply it to society as a whole. It seems to tie in with the ideas of masculinity, or lack there of in some ways.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm in the Mood

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AFC = a guy who feels frustrated when it comes to women

Honestly the best way not to be frustrated is to have control over your confidence. If you have multiple girls that you're interested in, you realize that theres no point being frustrated over one when you could succeed with another.
 
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Yeah. I have felt frustrated with women. Frustrated to where I am in long dry spells I just more or less want to desperatley get out of. Thing is, I am interested in multiple girls, more in the idea of, "hey, I would fck her". Fat,skinny, big tits,small,tits, I don't care.

This has been my dilemma, not getting the interest. Just not being that guy. Whether it's me or something in my mind. I have no solid idea how to succeed.
 

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Buy or download The Blueprint Decoded by Tyler Durden (Real Social Dynamics). In four days, tell us what you thought of it. It is probably exactly what you need. Don't ever ask a question here before watching/listening to that from start to finish.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Where do I get the blueprint decoded? Like you gotta link to it? Also, and I know this isn't advocated all that much on here, but I began reading the mystery method. All these methods,ideas,etc, where do I even begin? Also, in the blueprint, is there alot of superficial type stuff?
 

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You can buy it from the Real Social Dynamics website. You can probably also download it from lots of torrent sites. Audio or video.

I read the Mystery Method and didn't like it. But there are probably a lot of people who did like it. I find blueprint decoded very inspiring, funny and good. All the questions you have are answered there.

You think way too much. What's the use in knowing the exact definition of an AFC? You don't need to know that.
 

Igetit!

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CrypticCaptain said:
Where do I get the blueprint decoded? Like you gotta link to it? Also, and I know this isn't advocated all that much on here, but I began reading the mystery method. All these methods,ideas,etc, where do I even begin? Also, in the blueprint, is there alot of superficial type stuff?
Hey Crusader,long time no see. For a second there I thought you had actually given up. Want to know what gave you away this time? I mean besides this being your 4th thread titled "Hi". How about I just let you figure it out.

Alright Guoy Darko,you beat me to the punch....this time.

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CrypticCaptain said:
Where do I get the blueprint decoded? Like you gotta link to it? Also, and I know this isn't advocated all that much on here, but I began reading the mystery method. All these methods,ideas,etc, where do I even begin? Also, in the blueprint, is there alot of superficial type stuff?
I,can,tell,its,you. The stupid vague questions also.

CC, you're getting banned again.
 
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