"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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New poster here. Not much time to explain about myself, but I sure do have lot's and lot's of questions. But to start things off, how exactly do you define an afc?

I have the general idea, someone who seeks validation from women or put's them on a pedestal, someone who is needy, tries to win her over with gifts, money,etc.Or a guy with bad/no game, who can't make her panties wet for him?

But what are other traits you define as so, and is it more about getting rid of those traits entirely, or learning to control them? You guy's seem to take the idea and apply it to society as a whole. It seems to tie in with the ideas of masculinity, or lack there of in some ways.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm in the Mood

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AFC = a guy who feels frustrated when it comes to women

Honestly the best way not to be frustrated is to have control over your confidence. If you have multiple girls that you're interested in, you realize that theres no point being frustrated over one when you could succeed with another.
 
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Yeah. I have felt frustrated with women. Frustrated to where I am in long dry spells I just more or less want to desperatley get out of. Thing is, I am interested in multiple girls, more in the idea of, "hey, I would fck her". Fat,skinny, big tits,small,tits, I don't care.

This has been my dilemma, not getting the interest. Just not being that guy. Whether it's me or something in my mind. I have no solid idea how to succeed.
 

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Buy or download The Blueprint Decoded by Tyler Durden (Real Social Dynamics). In four days, tell us what you thought of it. It is probably exactly what you need. Don't ever ask a question here before watching/listening to that from start to finish.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Where do I get the blueprint decoded? Like you gotta link to it? Also, and I know this isn't advocated all that much on here, but I began reading the mystery method. All these methods,ideas,etc, where do I even begin? Also, in the blueprint, is there alot of superficial type stuff?
 

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You can buy it from the Real Social Dynamics website. You can probably also download it from lots of torrent sites. Audio or video.

I read the Mystery Method and didn't like it. But there are probably a lot of people who did like it. I find blueprint decoded very inspiring, funny and good. All the questions you have are answered there.

You think way too much. What's the use in knowing the exact definition of an AFC? You don't need to know that.
 

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CrypticCaptain said:
Where do I get the blueprint decoded? Like you gotta link to it? Also, and I know this isn't advocated all that much on here, but I began reading the mystery method. All these methods,ideas,etc, where do I even begin? Also, in the blueprint, is there alot of superficial type stuff?
Hey Crusader,long time no see. For a second there I thought you had actually given up. Want to know what gave you away this time? I mean besides this being your 4th thread titled "Hi". How about I just let you figure it out.

Alright Guoy Darko,you beat me to the punch....this time.

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CrypticCaptain said:
Where do I get the blueprint decoded? Like you gotta link to it? Also, and I know this isn't advocated all that much on here, but I began reading the mystery method. All these methods,ideas,etc, where do I even begin? Also, in the blueprint, is there alot of superficial type stuff?
I,can,tell,its,you. The stupid vague questions also.

CC, you're getting banned again.
 
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