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So when are you going to start taking your own advice?
Well I'm trying to improve on my income in my business and such. Also about moving. I might consider trying a second location at one of the markets in Tampa since I can still with a family member on weekends there. If I do that should I try dating in Tampa on the weekends while I'm up there since there is a much much larger pool of young, single women up there compared to down here? I'm hoping I can increase my income more since the demographics are better for my product up there. Especially at the market next to the large university.
 

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Well I'm trying to improve on my income in my business and such. Also about moving. I might consider trying a second location at one of the markets in Tampa since I can still with a family member on weekends there. If I do that should I try dating in Tampa on the weekends while I'm up there since there is a much much larger pool of young, single women up there compared to down here? I'm hoping I can increase my income more since the demographics are better for my product up there. Especially at the market next to the large university.
Life is about risks. No one, who is successful in their own right made it by playing it safe. If you can make your money in Punta Gorda, you should be able to make bank in Tampa due to the size and more people living in Metro Tampa. Get up and move there. Or, you can stay in Punta Gorda, make whatever you make now, and deal with the BS of OLD in your city. I assume you want success in your business and social life. No? It's about a 1.5 hour drive from Punta Gorda to Tampa. Relocate to Tampa, and one or two times a week drive to handle your clients in Punta Gorda. If you're smart, you buy a multi-family in Tampa so you have the other unit (or units) pay the mortgage for you.

Make it happen, or stay dreaming about HB's you want to have, but cannot get to them because you live 90 minutes away. Sh!t or get off the pot dude.
 

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Life is about risks. No one, who is successful in their own right made it by playing it safe. If you can make your money in Punta Gorda, you should be able to make bank in Tampa due to the size and more people living in Metro Tampa. Get up and move there. Or, you can stay in Punta Gorda, make whatever you make now, and deal with the BS of OLD in your city. I assume you want success in your business and social life. No? It's about a 1.5 hour drive from Punta Gorda to Tampa. Relocate to Tampa, and one or two times a week drive to handle your clients in Punta Gorda. If you're smart, you buy a multi-family in Tampa so you have the other unit (or units) pay the mortgage for you.

Make it happen, or stay dreaming about HB's you want to have, but cannot get to them because you live 90 minutes away. Sh!t or get off the pot dude.
Well, my business currently is 30 miles south of here. The problem there with sales is that it's mostly old people like over 65 who shop there. And as you know old people are not really into cell phones or at least buying new phones all the time so it's hard to have cases for their 6 year old phones which hurts my sales. I have my mother who can work my booth at the current location and I can just work with her some weekends while I have my cousin do the Tampa one sometimes and vice versa.

Tampa area, as I posted on here before has demographics that are much younger than Southwest FL, way younger. Also two of the fleamarkets are less that two miles from the state university, one of them right next to it. So I know I will also get more minorities and younger people who tend to buy my products. The other problem my current location has a total of 6 cell vendors. Just too many.

So if I did a Tampa market do you think I should use OLD secondary up there?

The problem with OLD down here VERY few selection within a 60 mile radius. I've lost a few dates because they did not want to compromise and meet me half way due to distance. I'm not going to drive 90 miles to meet someone and they end up flaking me and no show.

So in a place like St. Pete or Tampa would you try and focus using OLD less up there? I'd rather meet someone in person before asking for a number. At least IRL you get somewhat of an idea of their personality before going out on a date.
 

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Disagree. Reason being, they need to aim for they can actually get. If a dude who's living in a shack, no real career, no money, living in the middle of nowhere and who's overweight or obese can get a lady such as a Mia Kunis, Kate Upton, or a Kylie Jenner, then they've lost before even starting. Best to work up the level of lady they can get. As they improve, they can opt to get more attractive ladies.
I agree with you but there lies the problem of these men lowering their standards because they CHOOSE to not put the work into self improvement, which ultimately gives a man not only more options but better options.
 

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I'm liking what you are all saying here, and its giving me confidence towards actively making change.

Can anyone confirm this is the case though? Ie if an every day man who averages 3/4s makes the necessary changes, will I see better results?

I've brainstorm some self improvement ideas as follows;

- Taken up running, lose some body fat
- Begin lifting, weights. Heavy ones, where I'm broken after 3 X 10 sets.
- Upgrade my car
- Upgrade my career path/income levels
- Get my teeth straightened/whiteness
- Create long term investments

Any thoughts or advice anyone can give to a clueless man?
 

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I'm liking what you are all saying here, and its giving me confidence towards actively making change.

Can anyone confirm this is the case though? Ie if an every day man who averages 3/4s makes the necessary changes, will I see better results?

I've brainstorm some self improvement ideas as follows;

- Taken up running, lose some body fat
- Begin lifting, weights. Heavy ones, where I'm broken after 3 X 10 sets.
- Upgrade my car
- Upgrade my career path/income levels
- Get my teeth straightened/whiteness
- Create long term investments

Any thoughts or advice anyone can give to a clueless man?
Unless you're driving a beater or going for a Beverly Hills chick I'm not sure it matters a lot. Last 3 dates I had I have newer and better car than all 3 of them. Last one was driving a 2009.
 

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Most guys can save up $500 and get a 2-3 hot as fark hookers who are hotter than the average girl.
Then you also have the internet with so much porn and hot girls to look at.
then you can go to bars and clubs and have girls approach you and perhaps even ****ing them in the club.
 
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