"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nobeard

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I have been trying to get over this girl for a couple of months now. I ignored her for 2 and a half weeks hoping to get her out of my system. Today i started a convo because i had the beleif that we ended on bad terms. (she told me she though i needed to take a break from talking to her for a while). I don't think things went that bad im just dissapointed that i dont have the strength to forget about her. I almost feel powerless about this in my life

[13:23] me: hi
[13:45] Her: hello
[14:13] Her: Sorry about that btw i was in the shower
[14:44] Me: allright how have you been
[14:47] Her: I've been good
[14:49] me: thats good. hey ill talk to you later you seem to be going somewhere. i just wanted to catch up i guess its been a while since i talked to you
[14:50] her: Sorry I am about to be in a movie with my sister. Ill ttyl

I need some help. Im very young there is no reason why i cant just end this. Everything reminds me of her though. Its like my body has these emotional connections and when i come in contact with anything that could make me remember her i go back into a downwards cycle. Maybe i need a shrink but i cant afford one right now...
 

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DJDamage

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I know its a cliche around here but seriously "MAN UP"

Nobeard said:
. Today i started a convo because i had the beleif that we ended on bad terms. (she told me she though i needed to take a break from talking to her for a while). .
It doesn't matter if you ended things on good or bad terms, what matters is that its over and if you really want to get her out of your system you need to completley ignore her and kick her out of your life for good. This b1tch has the audacity to tell you that you need to basically take some "time to cool" off and when you are good and ready to forgive her, you can be her pet friend.
 

MisterMcGee

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Treat her like **** and have fun doing so. Stir things up rather than just simply 'getting in touch'. Yawn, boring, won't get you anywhere with a girl who said you two need to cool off.
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CFERD

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The best way to get her out of your mind, start talking to new girls.
 
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