"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Hi I'm Juelz...."

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So last night, a buddy and I went out, we were outside, just chillin drinking and this chick was waving him over, he started talking to her, I kinda hung back at first because I wanted to anaylze the situation, and see if her friends were going to CB him (ironic thing is, they didn't that must be a first) So i start chatting up both her friends and then he introduces himself "I'm Marcus bla bla bla" the chicks left a few mintues later.

I look at him and say "you're name aint Marcus.." He replied back saying "I don't tell these breezy's my real name, shoo you don't know who she is, could be crazy, bla bla"

I thought it was hiliraous, so that whole night I started to introduce myself as "Juelz". I've got nothing agaisnt my real name, I love it, but it was fun. Throughout the night I grew more into the character, I was extermely confident. Chicks I opened up earlier would be like "its jUEEEEEELLLLLZ" it was hiliraous.

anyof you ever use any persona's when you go out?

I just thought it was differen't because my frame was a bit differen't
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i had a corneal ulcer a few years, so i've got an extreme light sensitivity. hence i always carry my sunglasses on me.

There are people out there who only know me as "Shades" or "Mirror" since i wear mirrored aviators.

i think the anonymity subconsciously gives us permission to do things a little ballzier since what are the chances it'll come back on us? they don't even know our real names!
 

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Had a drunk alias 'steve'. Doesn't work none to well when you bump into them in a regular social setting tho


Ayo sollie, i see u posted in the APOC thread. we should give it a shot n post up some results man
 

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Tyrese...
it works better than my real name.....lol
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Since I look like Ne-Yo almost all the girls I meet refer to me as Ne-Yo.
 

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macallik said:
Had a drunk alias 'steve'. Doesn't work none to well when you bump into them in a regular social setting tho


Ayo sollie, i see u posted in the APOC thread. we should give it a shot n post up some results man

Man no FIng doubt, I thought about doing that, but my whole frame/mindset/swagger gotta be right, I praticed this line in front of the mirror and every time I would finish I would bust out smiling or laughing, I gotta do it dead serious on some ****y **** :D
 

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I feed a lot of sh!t to girls when I go out. I overexadgerate my job, or tease them by saying "I'm a helicopter blade sharpener." Or when they ask me what I "do" I'll be like "Not going out and talking to girls like you. I just play playstation every night" (shut up! you do not!! hehehe)

How old are you?
my response - If you have to ask you aren't ready to know yet

or

guess

chicks like playing games. It's fun for them.

Eventually I'll start telling the truth but to get the conversation going I like to play around a little bit, make them jump through a few hoops.
 

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I feed a lot of sh!t to girls when I go out. I overexadgerate my job, or tease them by saying "I'm a helicopter blade sharpener." Or when they ask me what I "do" I'll be like "Not going out and talking to girls like you. I just play playstation every night" (shut up! you do not!! hehehe)

How old are you?
my response - If you have to ask you aren't ready to know yet

or

guess

chicks like playing games. It's fun for them.

Eventually I'll start telling the truth but to get the conversation going I like to play around a little bit, make them jump through a few hoops.
I like that shttt

oh man chicks love playing games, like a fiend loves crack....

ayo Guy check ya pms!!
 
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