"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Hi I'm Juelz...."

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So last night, a buddy and I went out, we were outside, just chillin drinking and this chick was waving him over, he started talking to her, I kinda hung back at first because I wanted to anaylze the situation, and see if her friends were going to CB him (ironic thing is, they didn't that must be a first) So i start chatting up both her friends and then he introduces himself "I'm Marcus bla bla bla" the chicks left a few mintues later.

I look at him and say "you're name aint Marcus.." He replied back saying "I don't tell these breezy's my real name, shoo you don't know who she is, could be crazy, bla bla"

I thought it was hiliraous, so that whole night I started to introduce myself as "Juelz". I've got nothing agaisnt my real name, I love it, but it was fun. Throughout the night I grew more into the character, I was extermely confident. Chicks I opened up earlier would be like "its jUEEEEEELLLLLZ" it was hiliraous.

anyof you ever use any persona's when you go out?

I just thought it was differen't because my frame was a bit differen't
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i had a corneal ulcer a few years, so i've got an extreme light sensitivity. hence i always carry my sunglasses on me.

There are people out there who only know me as "Shades" or "Mirror" since i wear mirrored aviators.

i think the anonymity subconsciously gives us permission to do things a little ballzier since what are the chances it'll come back on us? they don't even know our real names!
 

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Had a drunk alias 'steve'. Doesn't work none to well when you bump into them in a regular social setting tho


Ayo sollie, i see u posted in the APOC thread. we should give it a shot n post up some results man
 

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Tyrese...
it works better than my real name.....lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Since I look like Ne-Yo almost all the girls I meet refer to me as Ne-Yo.
 

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macallik said:
Had a drunk alias 'steve'. Doesn't work none to well when you bump into them in a regular social setting tho


Ayo sollie, i see u posted in the APOC thread. we should give it a shot n post up some results man

Man no FIng doubt, I thought about doing that, but my whole frame/mindset/swagger gotta be right, I praticed this line in front of the mirror and every time I would finish I would bust out smiling or laughing, I gotta do it dead serious on some ****y **** :D
 

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I feed a lot of sh!t to girls when I go out. I overexadgerate my job, or tease them by saying "I'm a helicopter blade sharpener." Or when they ask me what I "do" I'll be like "Not going out and talking to girls like you. I just play playstation every night" (shut up! you do not!! hehehe)

How old are you?
my response - If you have to ask you aren't ready to know yet

or

guess

chicks like playing games. It's fun for them.

Eventually I'll start telling the truth but to get the conversation going I like to play around a little bit, make them jump through a few hoops.
 

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I feed a lot of sh!t to girls when I go out. I overexadgerate my job, or tease them by saying "I'm a helicopter blade sharpener." Or when they ask me what I "do" I'll be like "Not going out and talking to girls like you. I just play playstation every night" (shut up! you do not!! hehehe)

How old are you?
my response - If you have to ask you aren't ready to know yet

or

guess

chicks like playing games. It's fun for them.

Eventually I'll start telling the truth but to get the conversation going I like to play around a little bit, make them jump through a few hoops.
I like that shttt

oh man chicks love playing games, like a fiend loves crack....

ayo Guy check ya pms!!
 
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