"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hi, i am 16 and i'm a total mother****in AFC.
I have lets of girl - friends, but haven't had a GF since the 4th grade :(
I look good, bulit nicely 5'10, and i'm not very shy. I mean, i know how to get numbers, and there were alot of times girls had a crush on me, BUT...........................
They always just seemed to lose intreset in me over time, so the connection was lost or we just 'became friends'.
I'm very new to this whole 'PUA' stuff.
Now, this site is FILLED WITH INFO and i have NO FRICKIN IDEA what to read first. Can anyone give some direction as to what to read first? basically whre to start?

PLZZZZZZZZZZ PLZZZZZZZZZZ HELP ME!!! I NEVER EVEN KISSED A GIRL YET!! AN I'M ALMOST 17!!!
HELP!!! WHAT TO READ FIRST??
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dont read tips, read "mind changing" posts.

Suggested reading :

Pook - secret of the jerk
Senor fingaz - weapons of mass seduction.

Welcome to the forums.
 

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niggah..

i read all that pook stuff (wtf it took me like an hour!!)
so.......... basically what he is seing is that all tha 'seduction' **** is wrong?
WTH i'm confused as hell :confused:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Climax

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Re: links?

Originally posted by HORSEDUDE
links?

thx 4 the help man :)
Read the Don Juan Bible 1st.

then...

www.sosuave.com <--- Read everything on that site, its long, but very helpfull. (If u scroll down on that page, there is a box there where u can sign up to recieve daily "Don Juan Tips", sign up for that and read the Tips regularly;)

then....

If you are worried about the "kissing" thing, then Click here & read that site.

then... After doing ALL that (which will take a good few months) if u STILL dont know what to do, then i suggest that u lock urself in your room, and never come out;) ... What i am trying to say, is that after doing/reading all that, and applying it in real life, u are garanteed to be a "new" person.

Dont think that its just reading a few websites and you will become the ultimate... u need to PRACTICE it in real life, if u learn something new, u need to go out there and try it out, and NOT stop trying it out untill u have succeeded with it.

And also... u HAVE to expect rejection, u will NEVER be able to NOT get rejected at one point or another, even if u ARE the "ultimate".

You need to carry on, ignore the fear of rejection, ignore shyness, ignore low self confidence, and after reading what is needed to be read, u should be able to get nearly ANY girl u wanted, but i say again, this is a long and hard process, and u HAVE to be strong (not just phisically, emotionally)

I wish u luck, and i hope to hear of your progress. Now go learn something, and get out there and apply it! There is NO time to waste. ;)

Laterz...
 

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Re: niggah..

Originally posted by HORSEDUDE
i read all that pook stuff (wtf it took me like an hour!!)
so.......... basically what he is seing is that all tha 'seduction' **** is wrong?
WTH i'm confused as hell :confused:
Seduction ins't wrong.


This stuff might be confused and all...
And if you think you can be a player in a week, give up.

This stuff takes HUGE LOAD OF WORK that YOU do. You research, pick up your balls, try them out, try them out again, read some stuff again, and then go experimenting again.
Sounds like a lot of work and it IS a lot of work. It took me a year to get me to this midset (I can call myself a DJ totally honestly) and I was kinda natural in the first place just having few AFC traits.

Just read and experiment.
And don't worry about it, you'll have time. Don't rush reading everything at the start since no human being can take that much info at once. It takes years to be a guru. Many years.
 

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riddlin.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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?????????????????????

Originally posted by LikRetsam
riddlin.
:confused: :confused: :confused: {{{{ ? }}}} :confused: :confused: :confused:
 

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Read the DJ Bible first.

But if you need some quick help, read "Weapons of Mass Seduction" by Senor Fingers.
 
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