Thought id introduce myself to the community,
I have been a long time lurker of this forum under another account name, had to setup another as i couldnt post replies for some reason.
I came across this site as an AFC who allowed myself to get screwed around continuously by my oneitis. The tips/articles/ and djbible along with classic posts from the likes of Pook and Fingers helped me become alive again. It made me the centre of my world and realised where i went wrong. They basically woke me up from my nightmare, and simplified everything out for me.
I come back to this site every day to keep me from being the doormat that i was. I now look to improve who i am and I don't want to stop this.
My biggest battle at the moment is keeping on track, as sometimes I am guilty of getting lazy in terms of not staying on top of my game. Perhaps it is because i dont realise how far I have come/grown since finding this place.
I am the type that would rather an LTR than the one night stand, but for the moment I am putting myself first as I do not want to go into an LTR being needy like i was beforehand.
I hope to share my experiences and knowledge from my life on this site to help thers as I have been helped. This place is much more powerful than i thought it would be when i came across it at first, I have realised that all of the info on here is very strong stuff that should not be underestimated.
I have been a long time lurker of this forum under another account name, had to setup another as i couldnt post replies for some reason.
I came across this site as an AFC who allowed myself to get screwed around continuously by my oneitis. The tips/articles/ and djbible along with classic posts from the likes of Pook and Fingers helped me become alive again. It made me the centre of my world and realised where i went wrong. They basically woke me up from my nightmare, and simplified everything out for me.
I come back to this site every day to keep me from being the doormat that i was. I now look to improve who i am and I don't want to stop this.
My biggest battle at the moment is keeping on track, as sometimes I am guilty of getting lazy in terms of not staying on top of my game. Perhaps it is because i dont realise how far I have come/grown since finding this place.
I am the type that would rather an LTR than the one night stand, but for the moment I am putting myself first as I do not want to go into an LTR being needy like i was beforehand.
I hope to share my experiences and knowledge from my life on this site to help thers as I have been helped. This place is much more powerful than i thought it would be when i came across it at first, I have realised that all of the info on here is very strong stuff that should not be underestimated.