"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi guys,i need some input from the PUA here.

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I posted this on another board,but didnt get much help so i will cut and paste it here.


I met this hot girl who turns out to be a Miss about 3 weeks ago at a party,i started a conversation with her and she asked me if i thought that she was beutiful.I was stupid enough to say yes and all the sudden she takes off.I met her a couple of days later and asks again if i think she is hot.Since she took off the last time i said yes,this time i told her that i had seen better,this drove her crazy!She started fixing her hair,puting more make up,takeing of the sweater etc. but i still told her that i had seen better.She said who is better,i said well at least 6 women on this party are and then left.The next day she calls and wants to go on a date,i tell her that i have to see if i have time for her.She calls back after 10 mins and we agree to go out.When i met her the next day she looked absoulte stunning!The first thing she asks is what i think about her looks,i tell her that the shoes are nice,this drives her crazy again.We sit down and start to eat,and she asks if i want to go out with her on the weekend,i tell her that i have plans.She asks where im going out,i told her with some male friends to pick up girls.All the sudden she starts to tell me that she is jelous now and starts to cry.I felt like a piece of **** but still kept what i told her at the begining,that i liked other girls too.The date ends,we go home,the day after she wants to meet again,i tell her i cant.Then yesterday she calls me on the phone and asks if i think her voice is sexy,i make a stupid mistake and say yes,then she says that i love her but am to afraid to say it,i ask afraid of what,she says u know what and hangs up!Today i saw her on MSN she writes to me whats up boy who has been frighten,and says that i know im hot so u can go to hell and logs off!

this is where i need help......what should i do??? Im starting to think that this ***** might be psycho!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Indeed your deductions that this girl is psycho is right. Do you really want to waste your time on some chick who is so caught up over whether she looks good?

You know what? Just tell her that you think she's really hot and that you would really like to fvck her. Two possible outcomes. One, she loves your approval of her looks and rewards you with a lay. Second, she is insulted that you only think of her sexually and doesn't want anything to do with you ever again. Either way man, you win.
 

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don't give her a second thought, when you see her again totaly ignore her, don't even look at her, and if she comes up to you, tell her she looks decent but to be sure you'll need a closer examination.

she's got some selfesteem problems....
 

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Spider is correct, while you could play her and lay her you do NOT want this girl to turn into a Bunny Boiler.

Take it from me having some mental case who thinks she's got first dibs on you stalking you really screws with your game!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Guys today i got an SMS from the ***** saying: U tried to play me,but i played u back....and boy i feel good!


I have ignored the ***** for 2 days and now i get this **** from her!

What should i do?
 

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Wow you are a player, you made her feel good without going anywhere near her! :D

Keep it up man, she's clearly busting her bean over you!
 

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this is where i need help......what should i do??? Im starting to think that this ***** might be psycho!



EXCUUUUUSSSSSEEEEE MEEEEE!!! YOUR STARTING TO THINK SHE IS A PSYCHO??????

This girl is a bonified attention ho! You can bang her if you play her insecurities against her, but don't ever date her.

Once she lands you she will be off to the next guy since you've been conquered and put as a notch on her pumps or belt.

She needs to believe that she has won your attention which is why she is trying to challenge you with that scared bull sh*t!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So what u guys are saying is that i should keep contact with her?What should i do next?Keep neg hiting her?
 

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So about every third post on here ends up with an as5load of replies about how the girl is an attention ***** blah, blah, blah. Very rarely do I agree with that label. Most of the time it is just used as a lame excuse. This girl though truly is an AW. Her whole "relationship" with you is based on receiving attention, drama and competition.

What do you want from her? Do you want to nail this girl a couple of times? From my experiences if you are willing to suffer the consequences, which can range from minor to borderline trailer park domestic encounters, this type is really one of the easiest lays.

Think about how she acts and what she says. Her life most likely cycles between periods of wanting attention badly, wanting drama badly and wanting competition badly. Blow her off and be moderate with your attention right now. She will want it so bad she will make herself do whatever it takes to get it. Nail her. Now she will move into her drama period. Ignore it. Tell her you have no time for this. She will make up her own drama in her head and hate you but need to get the attention back and not let you get the best of her. This is the period were you have to be careful. She might be as mild enough to just go around talking about you and spreading rumors or it may be as bad as her stalking you and trying to create a scene in the last place that you want it to happen. Dont let her know were you live or work if possible. Ignore her a little more and then when you think she is going to finally give up give her the slightest bit of attention and repeat this process over again.

You know better than anyone else though whether or not it is worth it or how you think she would react to it. So do as you think will be best for you. Just consider what you may be getting yourself into before proceeding.
 
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