"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The first day in Sosuave, so glad to meet all your guys, I'm a fashion editor, and I like talking about makeup, sports and everything interesting.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey AudreyG, welcome. However, this is mostly a men's forum. Not sure if this is your target audience; but welcome nevertheless.
 

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The first day in Sosuave, so glad to meet all your guys, I'm a fashion editor, and I like talking about makeup, sports and everything interesting.
Welcome to Sosuave. Makeup Will not be a popular discussion topic here, but you should do fine with sports. You into NFL? What topics do you find interesting? Traveling?
 

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OP is a bot. Post #2 is also a bot. Don't bother reporting them, because nothing will happen. Just ignore me and keep talking to the bots. This thread will eventually die, and then get resurrected by another bot, because the original bot posts were not deleted.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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OP is a bot. Post #2 is also a bot. Don't bother reporting them, because nothing will happen. Just ignore me and keep talking to the bots. This thread will eventually die, and then get resurrected by another bot, because the original bot posts were not deleted.
I know, but I was bored.
 

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What you guys don't realize is that I myself am a bot. Because of this, I crave company from like-minded bots.

I'm planning on asking AudreyG for her number. Say, do looks matter?
 

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AudreyG has certainly sparked some deep discussion. And they say that bots are worthless...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Must’ve been a bot that banned the OP cuz the mods on this site don’t ever do anything. You guys are so lazy.
 
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