"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Found these forums a week ago or so. Started flipping through and realized that there's some true genius here.

Defenitely a good read, doesn't matter HOW much tail you get, there's good lessons to pass on.

So this is my intro post/I have a question:

I see around these abbreviation like "AFC" and "LBJD" or something. Can someone enlighten me and tell me what those mean?

I'll be reading and it will say "Don't be an AFC". Well, I want to know what that is...do I don't BE one!:)

Thanks, and i'm glad to be here.

-T


EDIT: I've read through some of the Bible, a lot of it are dead links though.

2nd EDIT: Ok I downloaded the bible, and answered my question.

This is good stuff here fellas, great work!
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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whatever man, just trying to introduce myself. Guess that doesn't happen here?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kiss my ass

Thank God I dont spend as much time on here as some of you do.

And by the way, try introducing yourselves to girls instead of forum members.

:D
 

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Originally posted by Social_disturbance

Thank God I dont spend as much time on here as some of you do.

And by the way, try introducing yourselves to girls instead of forum members.

:D
LOL! and this stupid motherf*cker just made a thread called ''Going from IM to #''
 

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Quote from Mr. Unique:

LOL! and this stupid motherf*cker just made a thread called ''Going from IM to #'

Well, that's his problem, isn't it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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Welcome to the forum T Money. ;)
 
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