"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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01.29.10

Entered a local bar at about 9:30pm as its FREE ENTRY before that, so it was really dull for like the first 60 mins. Already groups seem to be forming, in here you had the perfect setting of "sets". Some of the things PUA's explain just happend before my eyes.

As the lounge gets more crowded, the DJ's start to rotate, we've seen the sets that we want to initiate with.

5 set comes in, one of the more "Leader" of the girls, about a HB8 with a great body just stands in my position, I wouldnt even call it ioi's, it was more like "come and talk to me NOW", so I dont give her the satisfaction and go buy a few pints.

Get my drink, I start dancing around there group, She then taps me on the shoulder and smiles, then she starts grinding infront of me, so I seclude her in a corner with some 2 stepping and put my arms around her waist, from there it was bing-bang-boom. She turns around and puts BOTH HER HANDS ON MY FACE and smiles, then resumes grinding on me.

Then I turn away after the next song, and dance behind her friend, giving her IOD's, she taps me AGAIN and I get the puppy dog eyes from her. They leave to go outside for ciggerettes, so my AFC buddies think "Hey we can get to talk them if they're outside" (they already burned out the room for having multiple chances to engage in a set).

We're outside, then the girl acts like she just wasnt grinding on my privatess :rolleyes: So I introduce myself and crack a few sh!ts & giggles. I said "Where are all the good looking girls tonight", then the girl I was dancing with inside, said "There inside, maybe you might have results then .." I acted like I didn't hear what she said.

We all go back in, for the rest of the night, she stalks me to see if I'm dancing with any other girls, as she is grinding up on this other guy, she looks at me and grins, I smile back and look away, then kino some girl I knew.

I didn't number-close her, but wasnt really bummed about it. I dont look for NUMBER CLOSES ANYMORE in clubs/ bars, I'm more for the SNL tunnel vision. So no wins, no fails that night.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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02.08.10

Rejection is "TRULY" better than regret

Man, just got back from a Christning Party. There where loads of HBs there many of them with Babies. One thing I've noticed is that if you have a younger baby sibling cousin, nephew or neice with you this seriously gives you good IOI's. I arrived at the Christning with my friend and his mom. So I figured we wasn't gonna stay long since she didnt come with anyone her own age and was just passing to say Hi.

I immediately saw this HB at one of the tables with a baby she gave me a seductive look and then turned away, I looked back and she was steering at me from behind. She looked spitting image of my Ex-girlfriend. My friend didn't think she was that hot but I didnt care, I didn't make a move on her and its been buggin me ever since I've got back home. I would've mind getting a rejection than to know her name and where she lives just to talk with her but we had to leave before any of that could commense. Her parents or older male family members where probably there. But I wasn't even caring about all that. She was so hot, I'm p!ssed if I was see her again, I'll definetly introduce myself and say I remember her from the Christning. Better luck next time. Man ......I have to find out who she was. :mad:
 

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02.12.10

LAID

She just left as I'm typing this, the fvck was awesome.

Thought I wasn't going to get laid, as she kept asking me what times the trains stop running, I bought some drinks and we got totally smashed, shes such a lightweight.

Anyway, I followed her into the bathroom and pulled my pants down, I asked her to help me go p!ss, she held it and I faked it for like 5 minutes. Then I put her in a soft full nelson and pulled her leggings down, hardcore kino and foreplay from then on.

I loved the sex! the theme was JOCK vs CHEERLEADER, she knows how to tease, but after I nutted, I was so fvcking p!ssed off with her.

Girl: Do you know your cab number?
Heypachuco: I dont know
Girl: watever
Heypachuco: get the fvck out
Girl: dont worry I am
Heypachuco: yeah quicker, before I throw you out.
Girl: what did you say?
Heypachuco: i said hurry up, before I throw you out
Girl: I am, you dont have to be rude ...have you seen my knickers
Heypachuco: yh I'mkeeping them
Girl: ..... (finds knickers and puts them on)
Heypachuco: you fvcking suck
Girl: how do you open your door
Heypachuco: its basic...
Girl: (opens door) see you later
Heypachuco: thats it, get out
Girl: (turns round at me from down the road)

The fvcking slvt wanted me to give her oral because she gave me oral, then she wouldnt let me get back in her for a while because of it, maybe thats why I was p!ssed with her. Keeping my a.s.s quiet for a good while.
 

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02.13.10

Another LAY for tonight ......

Just don't know if I have the ENERGY to see Option 3 tonight. Just met up with her, she travelled really far and wants to come to mine later on after she comes back from this club with her friend. After last nights lay, I really dont have the energy for another LAY. Theres something wrong with me, just been P!ssed lately.

Anyway, I'll be posting up a LR or FR later,

EDIT: This is the same girl discussed directly below. Option 3, not 1. Option 1 LR is directly above. I never ended up seeing option 2 and her friends, Here where the options - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=171424
 
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02.14.10

LAID AGAIN.

Don't know what I've signed myself in to. Its evident I'm getting more lays and numbers, but I'm still not happy. As I'm typing this, shes in the bathroom getting ready to leave.

Shes travelling back to her hometown by train, about an hour 45 minute journey.

I was actually meant to see her on the 13th, she said she would come back to mine after coming back from the club with her friend. She didnt end up doing that, neither got a call or a text to say what was what, so I ended up falling asleep on the couch anyway aftera gameof COD, I was about to post a thread on "Am I being taken for a RIDE?", but said fvck it and just waited it out, I didnt even call her or text her to ask what was going on with that flake, but I played it cool and didnt give a sh!t till she called me the next day asking to see me, I didnt even bring up the flake.

girl: *after sex* come back with me?
heypachuco: I cant, I'm so busy
girl: I dont wanna leave you
heypachuco: I'll speak to you tonight
girl: your so sexy
heypachuco: huh
girl: nothing
heypachuco: why you staring at me lol
girl: because your sexy
heypachuco: your awfully quiet in person, but not on the phone lol
girl: its cos im shy
heypachuco: shy people admit they're shy? wow lol
girl: *blushes*
heypachuco: are you a health freak?
girl: no, not really, why?
heypachuco: whens the last time you got a check up?
girl: about 3 weeks ago
heypachuco: what where the results?
girl: clean, *smiles*
heypachuco: oh ok awesome *sighs*

I'm feeling fvcked and weak, risking my health for some poon? Its definetly not worth it. I'm exiting the game (lays) for a while, focusing on me, my health, economic balance and things I want to do, but couldn't last year.

HEYPACHUCO SIGNING OUT...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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02.20.10

Travelled by public transport to see this old interest since college days. She looks alot older now, from a hb5 to about a hb8, I was impressed. As we where chilaxing in her room, she seemed shy so she put the hotseat on me and made out I was nervous. She suggested taking me back home with her driving, so I agreed.

I had 3 parties to go to, and somehow get her out with me, but she wasnt feeling well, so I tried to bluff my way into her coming with me. Intially we set out to go back to my place, but I made her drop me off near the event, MY ERROR, BIG fvckin error.

My mistake will result in me not contacting her until she makes a move. So I know she still has some attraction there, the comfort is most definetly present, its just tapping into that attraction stage like when we first met. Update on her soon, for now I'll spin other plates.
 
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