Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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quest, you missed the entire point. I said what I did to you because you were claiming to be invincible, which is foolish to believe yourself to be.

And yes, if you didn't know what I looked like and I really wanted to, I could play you. By that I mean I could string you along letting you think you would get what you wanted but then never give it to you. That is what "playing" is. Most women want relationships and "players" lead them to believe that they are interested in them when all they really want is sex. Women play men by leading them to believe they will eventually give the guy sex when they have no intentions of doing so.

But again...it wasn't even about playing anyone it was about how foolish it is to believe that no woman can play you when it's so incredibly easy to do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
quest, you missed the entire point. I said what I did to you because you were claiming to be invincible, which is foolish to believe yourself to be.

And yes, if you didn't know what I looked like and I really wanted to, I could play you. By that I mean I could string you along letting you think you would get what you wanted but then never give it to you. That is what "playing" is. Most women want relationships and "players" lead them to believe that they are interested in them when all they really want is sex. Women play men by leading them to believe they will eventually give the guy sex when they have no intentions of doing so.

But again...it wasn't even about playing anyone it was about how foolish it is to believe that no woman can play you when it's so incredibly easy to do.
well i suppose that it depends on what we call being played.

i don't consider myself in the slightest bit, a player. and i don't think there is any girl who i have played. girls that i've had sex with, i don't make them think there is going to be a relationship. i don't say there won't be, and thats because if they turn out to be a person i want a relationship with, i would seek one with them.

maybe if you call me taking a girl to the movies and not getting layed, is being played, then sure. i've been played many times.

i don't.

to me, being played is, thinking that the two of you have something, which you don't actually have.

in which case, no, i don't think i can be played.

it all depends on what my expectations are.

take PRL for example. he thought that all girls are "hors". now if he was to become boyfriend/girlfriend with a girl, he'd already think shes a hor, and wouldn't be surprised if she played up. so intern, he'd play up at the same time.

has he been played? i don't think so.

now, remove PRLs name, and put mine.

but this thread isn't for you and me to revisit our tiff.

this thread is for people to have an insight into 'twisted dillusional 40 somethings'. - back on topic.
 
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