Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Originally posted by RBB
I heard enough from that Tom Likus radio show.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
plenty do...Originally posted by Centaurion
lol
i've been following that thread from day one. That's classic /pwnge
I really don't understand how a normal 20+ year old guy in a normal state of mind would want to get near a chick thats, 5', pushing 40, has 4 kids, been abused for 10 years, hooked up with a convict that got killed and god knows what other ****ed up problems she's got.
Damn.
Sometimes you need to screw up, so to speak, to mature and be a better person. As long as you really learn from your mistakes.Originally posted by Centaurion
I really don't understand how a normal 20+ year old guy in a normal state of mind would want to get near a chick thats, 5', pushing 40, has 4 kids, been abused for 10 years, hooked up with a convict that got killed and god knows what other ****ed up problems she's got.
Damn.
:crackup:Originally posted by quest
plenty do...
because she's a playerette with unrivalled skills...
but she uses her playerette skills for good not evil... which only makes her more attractive...
Interesting how you left out the part about WHY I said what I did to you. The thread was about a guy who had met what he referred to as a "Playerette". You claimed that you were so awesome that no one could ever play you. I told you that I could play you like a fiddle IF I wanted to and that to think you're invincible is foolish.Originally posted by quest
i haven't yet read the thread. but i gotto tell ya, recently wyldfire became the first ever person that i have blocked/ignored whatever its called.
she told me that she could play me.
at the time, i looked at her pic, if she was a banging 35 year old or whatever, maybe i'd hit it and leave. she's not. and i explained that she couldn't play me as she has nothing i want.
there needs to be a certain level of attractiveness for me to like them enough to be played. ie; i'd leave the 3-4 girls i'm seeing right now aged 18-21 to bunk up with a grandma thats playing me?
she couldn't understand that i wouldn't. because she has "unrivalled playerette skills".
had to "click here" to read the post as i thought it may be a reply to me.Originally posted by Wyldfire
Interesting how you left out the part about WHY I said what I did to you. The thread was about a guy who had met what he referred to as a "Playerette". You claimed that you were so awesome that no one could ever play you. I told you that I could play you like a fiddle IF I wanted to and that to think you're invincible is foolish.
If you're going to tell a story, you should at least tell it truthfully and completely.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.