"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey Young Guys, STUDY THIS THREAD...FOR YOR OWN GOOD!

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quest, you missed the entire point. I said what I did to you because you were claiming to be invincible, which is foolish to believe yourself to be.

And yes, if you didn't know what I looked like and I really wanted to, I could play you. By that I mean I could string you along letting you think you would get what you wanted but then never give it to you. That is what "playing" is. Most women want relationships and "players" lead them to believe that they are interested in them when all they really want is sex. Women play men by leading them to believe they will eventually give the guy sex when they have no intentions of doing so.

But again...it wasn't even about playing anyone it was about how foolish it is to believe that no woman can play you when it's so incredibly easy to do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
quest, you missed the entire point. I said what I did to you because you were claiming to be invincible, which is foolish to believe yourself to be.

And yes, if you didn't know what I looked like and I really wanted to, I could play you. By that I mean I could string you along letting you think you would get what you wanted but then never give it to you. That is what "playing" is. Most women want relationships and "players" lead them to believe that they are interested in them when all they really want is sex. Women play men by leading them to believe they will eventually give the guy sex when they have no intentions of doing so.

But again...it wasn't even about playing anyone it was about how foolish it is to believe that no woman can play you when it's so incredibly easy to do.
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well i suppose that it depends on what we call being played.

i don't consider myself in the slightest bit, a player. and i don't think there is any girl who i have played. girls that i've had sex with, i don't make them think there is going to be a relationship. i don't say there won't be, and thats because if they turn out to be a person i want a relationship with, i would seek one with them.

maybe if you call me taking a girl to the movies and not getting layed, is being played, then sure. i've been played many times.

i don't.

to me, being played is, thinking that the two of you have something, which you don't actually have.

in which case, no, i don't think i can be played.

it all depends on what my expectations are.

take PRL for example. he thought that all girls are "hors". now if he was to become boyfriend/girlfriend with a girl, he'd already think shes a hor, and wouldn't be surprised if she played up. so intern, he'd play up at the same time.

has he been played? i don't think so.

now, remove PRLs name, and put mine.

but this thread isn't for you and me to revisit our tiff.

this thread is for people to have an insight into 'twisted dillusional 40 somethings'. - back on topic.
 
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