"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hey ya'll

Hector

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well i had repost this somewhere else by accident well there the situation

hey there im new to this forum and ive learned a few things and glad and thank you guys for posting them. however i do need some tips or advice. check this out; a girl or better yet woman that ive known for 2 yrs im gonna see her again this upcoming tues. so heres where i need help the friendship has gotten a little boring but what can i do to rekindle the friendship? make her laugh or what some would call create attraction? yeah I miss her alot. and I think the feeling is mutual well i dont know but lemme share with you all the dream i had recently im going throu a store and i see her i call her over she comes she kisses me on the cheek hugs me and doesnt let go, some firends told me its because i miss her but would you guys also give me your opinion since this is my first time posting i hope that there wont be extrme levels of criticism or sarcasm. Any and all tips would be greatly appreciated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hector, let's say you have a best friend George. George is a cool guy. One day you and George are hanging out, and George takes your hand, looks at you like he likes you, and says, I'm attracted to you dude, I think we should explore it.

Wouldn't you say Ewwwwwwww?

Your female friend would say Ewwwwwwww.


Friendships sometimes can turn out into something more, but it is very rare.

For step by step learning check out www.bristollair.com
 

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Yea, instead of seducing her and getting her into bed, see if you can be better friends with her. Remind her by telling her she makes a great friend. Perhaps through her you can discover some of her female friends on which you can practice.. A female friend like that can open them for you, and wing you, and present you as a cool guy.
 
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