"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hector

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hey there im new to this forum and ive learned a few things and glad and thank you guys for posting them. however i do need some tips or advice. check this out; a girl or better yet woman that ive known for 2 yrs im gonna see her again this upcoming tues. so heres where i need help the friendship has gotten a little boring but what can i do to rekindle the friendship? make her laugh or what some would call create attraction? yeah I miss her alot. and I think the feeling is mutual well i dont know but lemme share with you all the dream i had recently im going throu a store and i see her i call her over she comes she kisses me on the cheek hugs me and doesnt let go, some firends told me its because i miss her but would you guys also give me your opinion since this is my first time posting i hope that there wont be extrme levels of criticism or sarcasm. Any and all tips would be greatly appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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