Hey Ya'll, Listen To My Story

[PVSSY-EATER]

WHAT UP YA'LL, THIS IS PVSSY-EATER, AND I HAVE BEEN READING YA'LL POSTS FO A WHILE, SO I DECIDED TO JOIN. NOW I HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH AND BASICALLY AM STILL LEFT WITH ONE QUESTION THOUGH, WHY DONT YOU GUYS STRESS MORE ON HOW TO RECOVER FROM REJECTIONS? LET ME TELL YOU, NO MATTER HOW MANY SEDUCTION TACTICS YOU LEARN, YOU WILL STILL GET REJECTED. ANOTHER THING IS, I HAVE FOUND THAT I ATTRACT GIRLS MORE WITH A "I DONT GIVE A FVCK" ATTITUDE. I MEAN...IT IS SORT OF LIKE.....I DONT GIVE A FVCK! I SAY WHAT I WANT, DO WHAT I WANT, ACT LIKE I WANT. NOW EVERYBODY DOESNT LIKE THAT, AND I RECEIVE SOME HEAT FROM DOING IT, BUT THIS IS WHEN I FEEL I AM MOST ENJOYING LIFE! WHEN I GO ABOUT CARE-FREE AND NOT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT REJECTIONS! I MEAN...I JUST DONT GIVE A FVCK!" HOLLA AT ME

 

[xiola]

well, if you are content to being alone then you dont get hurt over rejections. granted, i dont like to get rejected but it happens. I just move on to the next one


as far as getting over rejections of a major breakup, you just have to deal with the pain. knowing that the pain doesnt last forever helps too

b

 

[diablo]

You might want to visit the store soon and purchase a new keyboard; apparently your caps lock isn't functioning as it should.

That aside, what would you suggest we cover when addressing dealing with rejections? How much can one write on "recovering from rejections". Why is "recovery" even needed? You got rejected - plain and simple. Game over, try again with someone else. If it was a flaw in your pick up, then try to correct it next time - use the rejections as a tool to hone your abilities.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

LOOK I FEEL YA'LL, BUT WHAT I'M SAYIN', IS THAT ALL THIS WOMEN SHYT IS A NUMBERS GAME DAWG. WHAT I'M SAYIN IS...IT DOESNT MATTER HOW MANY SEDUCTION TACTICS YOU HAVE. ..YOU WILL STILL GET REJECTED. FEEL ME.

 

[diablo]

I don't think there's anybody here that thinks that they won't get rejected... Yeah, I understand where you're coming from, but you're just stating the obvious.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

BUT....DO YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYIN THOUGH

 

[diablo]

If what you're saying is that guys are going to get rejected from time to time when they approach a girl, then the answer is yes. Everyone knows that. Even my dog.

 

[belividere]

dude i have no clue what so ever about what you're saying.

Is this your story:

you learned some skills.

you applied these skills and they worked but you still get rejected.

You want to know how to recover from rejection

You dont give fvck and dont care about rejection.

Yeah it doesn't matter everyone gets rejected. So what. You tried. What do you have to recover for?

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

what i'm sayin is this....i'm not sayin i'm hurt over the rejection, i'm sayin what are some ways on bouncing back from rejection, without being desperate and stupid. you got me

 

[diablo]

Well, you shouldn't be letting getting rejected affect your attitude in the first place. If it is, you need to realize that it's just a "no", not proof that your life is a wreck and you are a horrible person. Also realize that you don't know if the next person you approach will reject you - they could just as easily say "PVSSYEATER, come home with me tonight" as they might "Umm.. I'm a lesbian...". Take it as it comes.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

diablo i love you

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

but you know....not in a gay way....you feel me....

 

[spidersense]

"I never get rejected by a woman, I just find out if she has good taste." That's probably the most important attitude I've learned on that subject. It very easily goes along with the "It doesn't really matter to me what she thinks about me" attitude.
Unfortunetely I have to endorse Ross Jeffries here, that is one of the few things I learned from his teachings that actually works.

 

[JazzPimpNYC]

You obviously care way too much about women and are seeking a woman's approval to validate your self-worth. Women can see this and then reject you. When you stop seeking validation, you stop being rejected. Simple as that.