hey this works

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

bankshot

Don Juan

Mar 10, 2002

i wanted to try some of the stuff i've learned on this board. am taking small steps doing little things first so i can learn and eventually master the bigger steps.

example 1)
chick who has shown some interest but did not return a call i left last wed.

me: am goin to workout you can join me if you want.
her: i have a paper do tommorow.
me: i understand how that goes.
her: but, we can eat dinner this week.
me: ok cool i'll call you.
her: in as weet voice "thank you "bankshot"

example 2 will be posted later its in progress.

example 2)

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.