"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey Peoples.. advice. Convo.. nervousness.. ETC

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This site has helped me tremendously... helping me to realize things.. see things.. etc... so thanks first and foremost.

Last night I went out.. met up with a girl who is a friend of mine who is dating one of my good guy friends... in turn we met up with 3 more of her gf's... and 3 more of my guy friends showed up. To set it up.. i wasnt the most attractive.. BUT had the best personality.. they talk to me more.. feel more comfy w me etc.

The 2 girls my friend brough were unreal... sexy as hell and single. I set myself on one girl. NIght went on but i couldnt get myself to be one on one.. I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY.. its horrible. Ill come up with 2 sentences then bam.. akward silence... even though Im getting the vibe shes digging me. I can play the confident ... im cool.. popular role.. but as soon as it gets to the nitty gritty I freeze.. then make it like nothing happened and start talking to someone else and make the girl think.. "damn he must not be into me since he going to takl to her"

Kinda confusing.. but I just gotta be able to finish what I started... I got all teh initials down just cant make it consistent and last long to take it to the next level. I mean the girl was obvisouly flirting with me and all.. but I didnt know where to go with it. I dont know if its my nervousness that Im "preforming" in front of other people... or just the lack of words and convo to keep up....

Any words of wisdom.. advice etc for me here...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Spider and/or anyone who can help....

Going out tonight to a bar... which more is a cliche bar where you stand around drink and talk w ur normals/friends. Always crowded....anyways...what should I do.. or try to practice on... I just feel like a clown out there even though I know I look confident etc..
 
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