"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey, New guy here.

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Hey, my first post. I have been reading alot of stuff from here and it just makes me confused. Cos there are alot of stuff and some of it conflicts with other topics.
Can anyone write me down a list of links to look at. I'll give you a profile of me so you can get an idea of what I need.

Name-Ben
Age-14
School-Upper school
Location-Leicester, UK
Height-Medium to tall (for my age)
weight-Skinny with little excess flab
Personality-Funny, hyper sometimes, try to use allot of humor. (P.S: I want to be that guy who is calm, collected, mysterious and very cool, any topics on that or ideas from you guys?)
I like sports, etc, I'm shy when talking to GROUPS of girls, but girls with 1 or 2 friends, not too bothered. I'm pretty confident, always stick up for myself, etc. (Also, answer for this question: How can I better myself to look like an Alpha Male? Please help:up: )
If you need any other info, reply to the topic with question.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dude your already a natural. Dont try to be calm and myterious and collected if your entirely something diffrent. If your already a natural and your already funny just try adding ****y to your humor... do some searches on that.
The develop your personality around and arogant but very funny guy. If u need to know more just ask.
 
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I'm not very funny though. My jokes aren't always the best. And i want to be calmer. Cos people tell me i get on their nerves. and i talk too much. This is something i want for myself.
 
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read more on ****y funny and make it an extra study subject and you can also watch comedy and im not saying to copy their works but when you start being around funny stuff and thinking funny things after time you will actually become funny and your 14 so this is an EXCELLENT time to start.
 
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yeah, I think so, people on here are always saying, i wish id learnt this stuff when i was younger, so I feel like Im at an advantage. If someone here, has an MSN address, could I IM them. Just PM me with it, and we'll have a serious talk about....well...Me :D

P.S can someone gimme a list of topics i should be looking at that would help me? much thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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