"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey, New guy here.

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Hey, my first post. I have been reading alot of stuff from here and it just makes me confused. Cos there are alot of stuff and some of it conflicts with other topics.
Can anyone write me down a list of links to look at. I'll give you a profile of me so you can get an idea of what I need.

Name-Ben
Age-14
School-Upper school
Location-Leicester, UK
Height-Medium to tall (for my age)
weight-Skinny with little excess flab
Personality-Funny, hyper sometimes, try to use allot of humor. (P.S: I want to be that guy who is calm, collected, mysterious and very cool, any topics on that or ideas from you guys?)
I like sports, etc, I'm shy when talking to GROUPS of girls, but girls with 1 or 2 friends, not too bothered. I'm pretty confident, always stick up for myself, etc. (Also, answer for this question: How can I better myself to look like an Alpha Male? Please help:up: )
If you need any other info, reply to the topic with question.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dude your already a natural. Dont try to be calm and myterious and collected if your entirely something diffrent. If your already a natural and your already funny just try adding ****y to your humor... do some searches on that.
The develop your personality around and arogant but very funny guy. If u need to know more just ask.
 
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I'm not very funny though. My jokes aren't always the best. And i want to be calmer. Cos people tell me i get on their nerves. and i talk too much. This is something i want for myself.
 
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read more on ****y funny and make it an extra study subject and you can also watch comedy and im not saying to copy their works but when you start being around funny stuff and thinking funny things after time you will actually become funny and your 14 so this is an EXCELLENT time to start.
 
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yeah, I think so, people on here are always saying, i wish id learnt this stuff when i was younger, so I feel like Im at an advantage. If someone here, has an MSN address, could I IM them. Just PM me with it, and we'll have a serious talk about....well...Me :D

P.S can someone gimme a list of topics i should be looking at that would help me? much thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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