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...or is getting laid this weekendz?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
hey members and frendz, who got laid this week?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
dk1990S111
Master Don Juan
^ hahahaha
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So that's 3
dk1990S111
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planning on going out with a few buddies tonight and or tomorrow night, we'll see how it goes. Last time I ended up babysitting them. One of them was puking all over the place so atleast I had a better night than he did but this time should be a lot better haha
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Just curious cuz im averaging two dates in two weeks, but not enough chemistry. ..
RangerMIke
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One last night... another this morning. One more tonight (I hope) and we will see... So far great weekend.
Turning 49 on Sunday... Sunday is reserved for my kids. So the plates are lining up tonight and tomorrow. Life is FVCKING great.
Turning 49 on Sunday... Sunday is reserved for my kids. So the plates are lining up tonight and tomorrow. Life is FVCKING great.