"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey let me tell you why I hate facebook

Zerro

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runner83 said:
Depends on how you use facebook - don't always agree with the concept of not adding a chick onto facebook until you have banged her, since if you use it right can be a good way to spike interest, and its also important to be open to opportunities as they arise.
Indeed, while a girl can use it to shelve guys there is no reason that you can't use it to leave chicks on the backburner as well.

And if you're life really is that cool and exciting (rather than just lying to chicks that it is) then let them have some glimpses of what they're missing out on.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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49au

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Facebook is what you make it.

Mine is full of pictures of me partying with girls. There are pictures of me cage diving with gigantic great white sharks in Mexico. Pictures of numerous exotic vacations. Pictures of me on my boat. etc. And I control which tagged photos and posts make it onto my Wall. When I do check in, it's at clubs, the casino, or great restaurants.

I don't post stupid updates about how I'm "bored at work", "life sucks", "eating tacos for dinner," etc. I try to keep my statuses funny, or interesting, or controversial, etc.

Oh, and I frequently make chauvinistic remarks or post pictures of women making sandwiches. It's like magic.

FB is also an excellent way to drop negs on hot girls or stand out from the crowd or drooling orbiters that "like" every photo and comment on everything they post. You can shelve girls too. They still follow your life and see pictures of you enjoying yourself and having fun, so you stay in their peripheral vision. They feel a lot more comfortable responding if you message them out of the blue after not talking for a few months, if they've seen you popping up in their newsfeed from time to time.
 

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49au said:
Facebook is what you make it.

Mine is full of pictures of me partying with girls. There are pictures of me cage diving with gigantic great white sharks in Mexico. Pictures of numerous exotic vacations. Pictures of me on my boat. etc. And I control which tagged photos and posts make it onto my Wall. When I do check in, it's at clubs, the casino, or great restaurants.

I don't post stupid updates about how I'm "bored at work", "life sucks", "eating tacos for dinner," etc. I try to keep my statuses funny, or interesting, or controversial, etc.

Oh, and I frequently make chauvinistic remarks or post pictures of women making sandwiches. It's like magic.

FB is also an excellent way to drop negs on hot girls or stand out from the crowd or drooling orbiters that "like" every photo and comment on everything they post. You can shelve girls too. They still follow your life and see pictures of you enjoying yourself and having fun, so you stay in their peripheral vision. They feel a lot more comfortable responding if you message them out of the blue after not talking for a few months, if they've seen you popping up in their newsfeed from time to time.
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