"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hey. i'm sick.

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ok guys. so this girl messages me on Wednesday about being sick, but she didn't cancel on me when she did. I suspected she would flake. :nervous: Lo & behold, the girl did show up and before me! I was about 10-20 mins. late.

She was coughing & sniffling the whole time we were together for 2 hours or so. Damn. The girl was really sick.

Goes to show a girl will go out with you even if she is sick.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well, it's a big step in building connection when she feels that comfortable around you. She was sick and could have easily canceled with good reason, but didn't. Take it as a big compliment and don't let it change your perspective of her. This girl went the extra ten yards to be with you that day.
 
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Seems like she has good character

Damian haven't seen you on this board for awhile.
 
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xectxny19x said:
ok guys. so this girl messages me on Wednesday about being sick, but she didn't cancel on me when she did. I suspected she would flake. :nervous: Lo & behold, the girl did show up and before me! I was about 10-20 mins. late.

She was coughing & sniffling the whole time we were together for 2 hours or so. Damn. The girl was really sick.

Goes to show a girl will go out with you even if she is sick. But I don't know, I might have preferred she stayed home with all the coughing & her face looked so flushed. I'm glad she came out though.
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Damn right ... if a woman really likes you she will not let anything stop her from seeing you and getting to know you..

first sign of LOW IL is excusses as to why she cant se you....
 
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whether it's b/c she wants to get to know me or not, definitely thumbs up to her for keeping the date though despite being that sick. not only that, she was on time. :cheer:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah a few months back I took a girl to see Fuel, the rock band. She told me a few weeks later that she had one of the worst migraines of her life that night, but still wanted to hang out with me. At a loud concert!!
 
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