"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Been a lurker on here for the past month or so and finally decided to register!
I can honestly say i was a prime AFC before i found this website, within the past month i have lost my virginity and have a couple of plates spinning at the moment. I can totally understand where i went wrong and that was infatuation and the fact i used to bombard them with text, instant messager etc. and got friendzoned. The plus i have though is i am deemed attractive - very attractive, however a problem i have is i don't seem to possess the killer instinct and lack confidence to kiss close etc. Any advice for overcoming this hurdle?

P.s This website is f@cking awesome.:rockon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Le killeur said:
Been a lurker on here for the past month or so and finally decided to register!
I can honestly say i was a prime AFC before i found this website, within the past month i have lost my virginity and have a couple of plates spinning at the moment. I can totally understand where i went wrong and that was infatuation and the fact i used to bombard them with text, instant messager etc. and got friendzoned. The plus i have though is i am deemed attractive - very attractive, however a problem i have is i don't seem to possess the killer instinct and lack confidence to kiss close etc. Any advice for overcoming this hurdle?

P.s This website is f@cking awesome.:rockon:

I don't usually post here, but honestly, I think the biggest problem most people have with trying seem attractive is just trying way too hard. If you're a nice guy at heart, play the nice guy role. For the record -- nice guy is FAR from being a push over. Many people like to say they are "nice guys" when in reality they are just push overs. There's nothing wrong with showing some RESPECT, and most girls worth your time will appreciate that, but don't be a *****.

You need self-confidence before you can just show a woman that you're the man. So, make yourself know you're the man, and she'll think it too.
 

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Thats the thing, my confidence is at its peak! i walk round thinking im God's gift and therefore they usually think i am too. I use alot of C&F and i sort of fill the player role, i am however not a natural player. Most girls come away calling me a d1ck and they've never met someone so ****y. However they still message me and how high IL!

Just too add im 18 so the audience is a whole different kettle of fish!
 
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