"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Been a lurker on here for the past month or so and finally decided to register!
I can honestly say i was a prime AFC before i found this website, within the past month i have lost my virginity and have a couple of plates spinning at the moment. I can totally understand where i went wrong and that was infatuation and the fact i used to bombard them with text, instant messager etc. and got friendzoned. The plus i have though is i am deemed attractive - very attractive, however a problem i have is i don't seem to possess the killer instinct and lack confidence to kiss close etc. Any advice for overcoming this hurdle?

P.s This website is f@cking awesome.:rockon:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Le killeur said:
Been a lurker on here for the past month or so and finally decided to register!
I can honestly say i was a prime AFC before i found this website, within the past month i have lost my virginity and have a couple of plates spinning at the moment. I can totally understand where i went wrong and that was infatuation and the fact i used to bombard them with text, instant messager etc. and got friendzoned. The plus i have though is i am deemed attractive - very attractive, however a problem i have is i don't seem to possess the killer instinct and lack confidence to kiss close etc. Any advice for overcoming this hurdle?

P.s This website is f@cking awesome.:rockon:
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I don't usually post here, but honestly, I think the biggest problem most people have with trying seem attractive is just trying way too hard. If you're a nice guy at heart, play the nice guy role. For the record -- nice guy is FAR from being a push over. Many people like to say they are "nice guys" when in reality they are just push overs. There's nothing wrong with showing some RESPECT, and most girls worth your time will appreciate that, but don't be a *****.

You need self-confidence before you can just show a woman that you're the man. So, make yourself know you're the man, and she'll think it too.
 
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Thats the thing, my confidence is at its peak! i walk round thinking im God's gift and therefore they usually think i am too. I use alot of C&F and i sort of fill the player role, i am however not a natural player. Most girls come away calling me a d1ck and they've never met someone so ****y. However they still message me and how high IL!

Just too add im 18 so the audience is a whole different kettle of fish!
 
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