Hi, I went out with this girl on a date 2 months ago, in a date where I payed for everything... and we end up making out... then, we kissed every once in a while at university and then she lost atraction.
Then I decided to move on as I'll be improving my game... but like a month later she started to connect to MSN once in a while and talked to me... so I decided to keep things with her.
I made on her a very better game and the results were pretty cool. I went to her place and we had a pretty good time, a friend [girl] of her came to her place later and we all went to have a few drinks to a bar/pub or something like that... then, we took a cab to let her friend at her home, and me and my girl went to her place... and we ended up laid in her bed watching TV, I tryied to find a situation to kiss her or something, but she fell asleep.. and so I did then. We woke up the next morning.. I had a coffee and then I left...
ok, so long so good
Then, I kind of stop talking to her like for a week and half.. but it wasn't giving any credits... so after a few good moves I called her and told her that I wanted to see her and that I was going to her place, I wasn't very sure about that.. but I called as if, and she responded well. Ok, this thing was like 8 hours ago... we were at her place... doing good.. we went for a walk... it was good, I kept in mind to have a higher social value than her, not beeing a wuss, sexual eye contact and fine stuff. Then I had dinner with her and family... and then I told her I had to left.. because I had a work interview the next morning [so, in like 8 hours.. wish me luck ;] well, she walked me to the bus stop... and it was night and quiet, the bus was taking time to come... and we were chatting but like in "maybe we are going to kiss" mode, you know.. there was that aura. Ok, THEN is when my game went down... she sitted down and I followed her... I know she was in for the kiss.. all I had to do is to.. I don't know.. take her arm, look at her and when she said "what?" do the same "what?" and kiss her softly.. that would have worked great.. but no, I didn't make my move.. and my lips were kind of dry and I think she saw me getting them wet with my tongue as I tried to disimulate looking the other way when I was doing it. I don't know.. I lost a few good chances.. and then she steped a little back, like.. not giving me that good chances any more.. the chances were still there.. but she was hidding it a little more.
Well.. what happened, the bus comes.. I left and I want to cut my balls off..
The thing is that now I feel like I have no more chances with her [I know that's not true but.. that's kind of what I feel], and I feel that all that I worked was for nothing.. like, I have to start all over again.. and that sucks..
well, thanks for reading... anyway it's fun..
so.. what should I do now?? because I have not much of a clue in this particular situation.
Then I decided to move on as I'll be improving my game... but like a month later she started to connect to MSN once in a while and talked to me... so I decided to keep things with her.
I made on her a very better game and the results were pretty cool. I went to her place and we had a pretty good time, a friend [girl] of her came to her place later and we all went to have a few drinks to a bar/pub or something like that... then, we took a cab to let her friend at her home, and me and my girl went to her place... and we ended up laid in her bed watching TV, I tryied to find a situation to kiss her or something, but she fell asleep.. and so I did then. We woke up the next morning.. I had a coffee and then I left...
ok, so long so good
Then, I kind of stop talking to her like for a week and half.. but it wasn't giving any credits... so after a few good moves I called her and told her that I wanted to see her and that I was going to her place, I wasn't very sure about that.. but I called as if, and she responded well. Ok, this thing was like 8 hours ago... we were at her place... doing good.. we went for a walk... it was good, I kept in mind to have a higher social value than her, not beeing a wuss, sexual eye contact and fine stuff. Then I had dinner with her and family... and then I told her I had to left.. because I had a work interview the next morning [so, in like 8 hours.. wish me luck ;] well, she walked me to the bus stop... and it was night and quiet, the bus was taking time to come... and we were chatting but like in "maybe we are going to kiss" mode, you know.. there was that aura. Ok, THEN is when my game went down... she sitted down and I followed her... I know she was in for the kiss.. all I had to do is to.. I don't know.. take her arm, look at her and when she said "what?" do the same "what?" and kiss her softly.. that would have worked great.. but no, I didn't make my move.. and my lips were kind of dry and I think she saw me getting them wet with my tongue as I tried to disimulate looking the other way when I was doing it. I don't know.. I lost a few good chances.. and then she steped a little back, like.. not giving me that good chances any more.. the chances were still there.. but she was hidding it a little more.
Well.. what happened, the bus comes.. I left and I want to cut my balls off..
The thing is that now I feel like I have no more chances with her [I know that's not true but.. that's kind of what I feel], and I feel that all that I worked was for nothing.. like, I have to start all over again.. and that sucks..
well, thanks for reading... anyway it's fun..
so.. what should I do now?? because I have not much of a clue in this particular situation.
