"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey Guys, New Here, approached 100 attractive girls and kept a log

GoodLookingLoser

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What Up DJs, I'm Chris.. new here, but not to 'the game'.
back in 2009 I did this experiment for a few friends of mine where I walked up to 100 (102) attractive girls in Los Angeles and hit on them with what I call "average guy" game. The experiment (102 girls) took me about ~6 days.

this was basically-
compliment
small talk
"hey you're cool... gotta go.. whats a number I can text you at?" (hand them my phone)

here are the results
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/201...is-a-numbers-game-the-odds-are-in-your-favor/

i followed up with a more aggressive text (example within)

now note, I actually had pretty solid "game" at that point, not a lot of emotional or sexual neediness since I was sleeping with 2 other girls at that point. I actually 'did better' than I thought I would since I generally and more aggressive.

The point of my little experiment was to show (to my friends, Mark, Brandon, etc.) was that the average guy (having NOT studied any seduction stuff) could hit on 100 girls and it is MORE likely for them to get 1 or more dates (maybe get laid) than to be REJECTED 100 times in a row. My second point was, it's a numbers game.

2 of my friends decided to do the same thing within 3 months and they were successful too (not sure exactly how many girls they slept with).

if you got any questions about my little experiment.. lemme know I'll try my best to answer them
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LostAndConfused

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Yeah dude but you're Good Looking, if your name is accurate. Thats not very "average guy". it makes it easier!

Question for you, what have you done in situations where you've been blown out multiple times in a row?

Some nights when I'm in the mood to approach, when I get 3 burnouts my approaches start getting sloppier and sloppier until I give up.

:EDIT: I took a look at your blog post and log. Awesome report dude! Now the real question is, now that you've had so much success, are you going to keep doing it?
 
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r0cky

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Its all about confidence. It doesnt matter what you say. You can speak jibborish to a girl and get her attracted if youre a confident guy
 

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This guy calls himself average and he's a 6'2" buffed out meathead running around in Affliction t-shirts.

C'mon man.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wait_out

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Why don't we have a competition to copy Chris? It might be fun.

It might take me a while as I am quite time-poor but I'll keep results. Why not eh? Too many people here invent reasons to fail before they have even begun
 

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Hey what up guys- thanks for you feedback, both positive and negative.
thanks for the mods for letting me post this for my 3 or 4th post... I ain't gotta nothing to sell just so you know.

re: "Average Guy"
I'm not the average guy, I def. don't profess to be.
Stick with me here-
What I was talking about was- I running 'average guy' game. Not aggressive game. Not mainstream PU game (negs, dhv, stories, magic tricks, cold reads, etc.). Average guy "game".

Average guy game is- compliment(s) + what's your name/small talk.
That's what the 'average guy' does, even though he fishes a bit more for commonalities.

my point (and I understand that it can get lost among the statistics) is-
If you hit on 100 hits, it is more likely that you'll get a get (and possibly get laid) than be rejected 100 times in a row.

Now that may obvious, certainly you guys know that since many of you guys study seduction and have wonderful understanding of the theory. Yet I've worked with students/guys/friends over the past ~2 years that have dateless/sexless streaks of 6+ months (I used to be that guy). These guys are sorta confused why they aren't getting laid. It's simply because they aren't hitting on enough girls. Once a week, they will maybe hit on 5 or 10 chicks at a club with bad logistics, that ain't gonna get it done unless you have mad good game. Learning will be super slow.

I definitely don't mean to suggest- approach 100 chicks, get laid 7 times. No way, probably not for starters. When I started out, ~5 years, if I got laid 1 time on 100 approaches it would be decent.

Also I'd like to suggest- I used to think PU was about having some magical skill where I'd get EVERY girl EVERY time. It obviously isn't, not every girl is available. So often lost in the skills/techiques/inner game lesssons/etc. etc. is the very basic concept that PU is a numbers game. I lost sight of that for a while and thought I needed to work on my "game" "appearance" "identity" etc etc... I didn't... I just had to hit on more chicks.

If I repeated the experiment (with average guy game) I probably get laid 3 or 5 times out of 100.

Now, the 'average guy' game ENDS on the texting, date/meetup... I want to BANG these girls and I'm going to get them IN or OUT (i usually do this on approach)

Lost and Confused-
I reached my goal of sleeping with 4 (it was 9, counting the chicks not in LA) super hot chicks (rotation, ****buddies) back in November of 2009. I was literally so happy I had trouble falling asleep at night. My goal from there was to explore sex further with these girls (i talk about on GLL.com) and also really figure out how to integrate women into my ideal life. When I was learning/hitting on chicks/banging them I didn't have full time job and I did NOTHING else than go to the gym. (good looking loser, i know, but it was honestly the greatest period of personal development I have EVER experienced). I did it for another 14 months after I reached my goal and learned to get REALLY aggressive. Today, I'm in a committed relationship where I explore 3somes and various fetish stuff. Since I still help out some friends, I approach chicks (my GF is cool with it)

that's funny you mention Affliction, I haven't worn it since 2009. It's out of style for sure but not since 2005. Girls thought I was some MMA fighter or something (social value you guys may call it), and I think it helped out. Now my style was "MMA," not just dude in 'Affliction' shirt. There's a lot of guys who just 'wear an Affliction Shirt'... but they don't have the biker boots, leather jacket, accessories, etc. It's Hollywood so I definitely when ALL OUT. So it's about an overall look vs. what shirt you are wearing... I think you get that and maybe my pics don't indicate all this (they prob. don't)

thanks for your feedback DJs!! :)
 
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