"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hey, guys, NEED HELP! Best Way to Break Up?

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guitarmatt18

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I need to break up but this relationship has lasted five months and it is loosing all interest. Talk about boring girl... geeez! Anyways, I've been reading around. My friend says "tell her straight up what the problem is and swear by it" while the boards say to basically make up an exuse that is buyable. Yet this relationship is five months long. How should I approach this. Mainly... she is duulll she doesn't know how to communicate well as in quiet type and everytime i thought of breaking up somehow sexual stuff would initiate and it kept me in. But the sex is not enough I need someone up to my social level. Thanks
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sexy_kuta

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get her alone where its just you two,

tell her you would rather be just friends because you are losing interest and you wouldnt wanna drag her along into a fake relationship, be honest, tell her that u would rather be friends and the relationship isnt really working out for you

u can tell her on the phone but i rather tell it in person because that takes more balls
 
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KillaCam

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Kuta is on the button.

Sit her down and just tell her you're losing interest. Face to face honesty takes a lot more guts than a lame excuse over the phone. Keep your dignity and show you're a man that can handle the tough stuff :up:
 
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