"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey, guys, NEED HELP! Best Way to Break Up?

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guitarmatt18

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I need to break up but this relationship has lasted five months and it is loosing all interest. Talk about boring girl... geeez! Anyways, I've been reading around. My friend says "tell her straight up what the problem is and swear by it" while the boards say to basically make up an exuse that is buyable. Yet this relationship is five months long. How should I approach this. Mainly... she is duulll she doesn't know how to communicate well as in quiet type and everytime i thought of breaking up somehow sexual stuff would initiate and it kept me in. But the sex is not enough I need someone up to my social level. Thanks
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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get her alone where its just you two,

tell her you would rather be just friends because you are losing interest and you wouldnt wanna drag her along into a fake relationship, be honest, tell her that u would rather be friends and the relationship isnt really working out for you

u can tell her on the phone but i rather tell it in person because that takes more balls
 
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Kuta is on the button.

Sit her down and just tell her you're losing interest. Face to face honesty takes a lot more guts than a lame excuse over the phone. Keep your dignity and show you're a man that can handle the tough stuff :up:
 
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