hey guys im new to this and i need help.....

[Kyontate17]

Ok how can i start this..... i went out wit this one girl she a christan, she 14 and im 17... everything was going good and then in a month and some days she dumped me because her mom said that she cant have a boyfriend..i was hurt. she said that i was the sweetest guy that she ever been wit.... 4 days later after the break-up she called me crying saying that she loves me,but we couldnt go out she said everything is complicated right now.Then a week later she realize we cant be together nomore so she tried to move on...she had 5 guys on her but didnt go out wit none of them because she said that i treat her better and she still had feelings for me and then on a monday i was talking to her on phone and everything was fine.a day later she took all the guyz off her top.. 2 more days later she took me off her top on her myspace and her mood was "I DONT EXPECT NO ONE TO BE PERFECT!!!!" i was wondering what was going on its been 5 days that she havnt talk to me and then 2 more days later she has a new guy on her top and she havnt delete none of the comments i send on her pics...i didnt beg her back or anything only weaklings do that but i want her back.... is their a possible way guys????

 

[Captain]

You can't have her back when she is the one to end things. If she was REALLY attracted to you, she wouldn't be saying "it's complicated". Forget about her and move on.

She's jerking you around and you're taking it. She has all the power. Just forget about her, if she is attracted to you at all that's the best move you can make because it shows that you are not her b!tch.

 

[Kyontate17]

Ya but Captain it was hard because we got caught on the phone from her brother and her mom wanted her to break up wit me for the longest and at skool too...

 

[kevin1198]

not trying to say anything, but isnt that girl a little young? most girls that young arent really looking for long term relationships. (and you can get in some serious trouble)
they love to start drama, thats why she took you off her top for no reason and complained about it. she's most likely just playing with you.

i'd read the HS Bible and the DJ Bible to better understand this. it'll answer alot your basic questions, and help you understand why she is acting like this.

 

[jeffthechef]

if her mom is adamantly against you guys being together, good luck...parents will do anything to stop you if they really want to

are you sure it's not an excuse? if her parents weren't really too serious about the situation, she could be using it anyways becuase she doesn't want you...and everything afte ris just to let you down softly
think about it, wouldn't you simply have a secret relationship or something else if you were the girl

why dont you just move on to the next girl on your list...is one girl really worth all the trouble?

 

[shydude]

Ughh..Move on, ur 17, stick to 5 b1tches a night, play em all. Trust me you dont need a gf right now or any of that ****, its too complicated and too much of a problem. I have dated multiple women for years and **** ends up the same, best thing is to have as many girls as possible, remove your emotions till your ready to settle for a relationship when ur a bit older, but right now best advise is just experiment. Your gonna have girls beg you to stick with them, your gonna have 6 feet blondes calling you day and night and crying their hearts off so you can come back to them, but you wont cuz ur the man. So Forget this girl your talking about, your the man now, dont post about *****es let em post about you.

 

[DatMackinBoi]

Ughh..Move on, ur 17, stick to 5 b1tches a night, play em all. Trust me you dont need a gf right now or any of that ****, its too complicated and too much of a problem. I have dated multiple women for years and **** ends up the same, best thing is to have as many girls as possible, remove your emotions till your ready to settle for a relationship when ur a bit older, but right now best advise is just experiment. Your gonna have girls beg you to stick with them, your gonna have 6 feet blondes calling you day and night and crying their hearts off so you can come back to them, but you wont cuz ur the man. So Forget this girl your talking about, your the man now, dont post about *****es let em post about you.

Preach brother.. Yezzir!!