"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey Guys....heres a good topic

PVSSY-EATER

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hello bros, how is ur one!

This is that guy they call, Pvssy Eater a-gain, and I just want to start a real good discussion...just to see what you guys think....

Okay.....here goes, but as you know, or, maybe you dont know, but I am black...okay.

Now my question is, do you think that don juaning for black men is different than it is for white men?

Do white girls respond the same as black girls?

Or...does it depend on the girl, or does it depend on the don juan?

When I count to three, we are going to start discussing....1, 2,

3!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think black chicks are alot harder to pull than white chicks. They can see through bullsh1t alot faster than white chicks....
 

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Senor Fingers - Take Back Your Power

Nationalities and Generalizations

"Asian Chicks are the best!" "White Chicks are whóres!" "English girls are cold!" "Stay away from black girls!!"

Yet again, more excuses.

"Its not really me, it is HER...damn these green-eyed/redheaded/etc girls!!"

It is much easier to blame our failures on a womans nationality, race or appearance than to face the fact that we might be doing something wrong.

Playing the victim will get you no closer to victory!
I am amazed at how much this topic has taken over this board. I'm white I've been with girls of just about every color. I have also been rejected by girls of every color. People are people and I cant win every girl no matter what ethnicity, culture or status. You just gotta go out and try. I have a personal goal of running rampant on as many girls from as many countries as possible. I'm pretty happy with my current progress.
 

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bel....i totally agree with you.

I have been accepted and rejected by both and even other nationalites as well..

My main point in this thread was to bring out any emotions that some may have been having, regarding being black in an all white area, or being white in an all black area.

the quote that you gave was correct, but I just have one question......and I want you guys to really think before you answer.....

Is being one type of guy, it can be whatever, does being that one type of guy, as we all seem to preach to others as they should be a don juan, well, does being that one type of guy appeal to the different cultures of women?

Or......is being a don juan being more of a peoples person, where people of all cultures can relate to you?

Lets discuss bros.
 

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bel....i totally agree with you.

I have been accepted and rejected by both and even other nationalites as well..

My main point in this thread was to bring out any emotions that some may have been having, regarding being black in an all white area, or being white in an all black area.

the quote that you gave was correct, but I just have one question......and I want you guys to really think before you answer.....

Is being one type of guy, it can be whatever, does being that one type of guy, as we all seem to preach to others as they should be a don juan, well, does being that one type of guy appeal to the different cultures of women?

Or......is being a don juan being more of a peoples person, where people of all cultures can relate to you?

Lets discuss bros.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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my approach to all women is the same. It has been the same and it will stay the same. When you try to tailor yourself to a pick up you are qualifying yourself. Everyone who is complaining about indimidation and attitude obviously dont have enough practice.
 

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Do we really need to go through this again? There's been so many black/white, pro/con, us/them posts in this forum... It all comes down to this:

  1. Some guys could give a rip about it and doesn't let race slow them down.
  2. Some guys use race as a boundary and will limit their sarging either because of their preference.
  3. Some guys definitely won't broach anything outside the norm because of fear of the unknown.
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    This goes for either (any) race.
 

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agreed.
So that about wraps up 9 on going posts/flame wars
 

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
hello bros, how is ur one!

Now my question is, do you think that don juaning for black men is different than it is for white men?

Do white girls respond the same as black girls?


been trying to stay out of this, but i do have a few opinions, so see as your asking.

Being white, i obviously can't speak for black guys, but some obersavations from a UK perspective.

Firstly, if your in a predominalty white environment, your gonna stand out, this can be a good or a bad thing, but i bet its more of a good thing.

A large amount of young black guys play up on the whole hip hop /thug image, even mixed race lads will act more sterotypical 'black' than 'white'.

hip hop/rnb is quite fashionable right now, so this image is quite attractive to some girls.

to be honest though, the type of white girls i normally see who are attracted to this image are sluts/ugly, and i wouldn't touch them with a bargepole. They are the type of girls who meet men by eyeing them up and grinding/dancing provocatly in front of them, basically hand it over on a plate, but then complain when they get treated like ****....

Girls who are more snobby are harder to get with full stop, let alone if your black or white, but if theyre posh girls theyre probably been brought up to look for a man with money, rather than someone making out how ghetto he is, so the thug iamge is not gonna play so well.
 

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ok ok ok, ima put my two cents in this too... this is strictly from observation though, so take it or leave it :D

i mean personally i've seen it in ALL races. The type of guy that gets the girl has the attitude and presentation going for him. i mean really to say all black guys will get white pvssy is a stereotype and is not always the case. (this is going off a generalization that i've heard guys say a lot)

i've seen good looking black guys not get the blonde white girl because he wasn't handling himself well enough. so that to me tells me that there's a LOT going on with so many variables that it's hard to generalize without skipping something out.

that's why i say that typically the type of person a DJ stands for is what women in general may all want, but it isn't always the case as there will always be those types of women who are stuck-up or bytches. BUT if you got your GAME together and are cool, fun and interesting to hang around AND like yourself but don't like love yourself so much that you'll look at yourself in the mirror for hours at a time, then yeah you're a safe bet and show a lot of potential to any woman.

and that's why i say that it may be different from culture to culture as you may have religion that steps in, or societal norms that make it taboo to have relationships with different races and what not. But if you get down to it, people of the same race have to have their shyt together if they plan on having any luck. Same works in different cultures too.

If you don't BS women and "get it", then it's going to increase your success because you're not doing those stupid things that ruin your chance before you are even successful.

to answer your original question about Don juaning for blacks and don juaning for whites. I don't think it's any different, I could see differences in communication and slight differences in appearance or something similar. But I still see that it's more about personality than the colour of your skin.

hope this helps man, if not, ahh well :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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