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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hey guys have a problem..with a girl...

iturbide1981

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i read a lot of threads here..and sometimes have posted it on this website...like two or three time...and i need advice...
first i discover this site a year ago...you could say i was an afc...(if i am correct)...but then...i started reading this...site..and it kind of raised my spirits up..i started to read anything that had to do about books..especially the game...by neil strauss...after that..you could say i met a black widow...i fell in love..but she played with my feelings maybe not meaning too..cause she always wanted to be my friend supposly..:( we went to clubs together dance very close and flirted a lot..but never got the girl...i sent her a dozen roses..and never heard from her againg cause she told me...that if i wanted to be more she wasnt going to be my friend..so i was like **** it...and send the flowers anyway..so we stopped talking... but then i was so depressed..cried..you name it and then i remember everything i learn..and at first i was avoiding the same club...(because of being rejected in front of her)....but the i started going to the same club..and started ASKING out everything in site....so now this is my problem...now i can get a lot of phone numbers...(so far like 5..) i meet this puerto rican girl...you could say wants to **** me..jajjaja guys i feel great...not bragging because if i wanted to lie..i would say more...and i meet my so CALLED FRIEND....like three times....and she always asks me who am i with or who did i come with..and i am like what the ****.... so i was this ***** is sending me the wrong signals again or the right ones...so last thrusday..i went to her job..and gave her a yellow rose...(meaning of friendship) and i asked her out..to go with me to go to a concert...and she said that she couldnt because...she already had a boyfriend...(a fag she presented to me 2 weeks ago as a FRIEND) BUT she is like give me your number again because supposly had losted...SHE HAS KNOW ME FOR A YEAR.. now...this is my problem...do you think she is seeing i am valuable as a sex partner...and its going to give me a chance...and if not..should i let her see me with the puerto rican girl...and send the wrong signals..that i am over her...because i am not....for gods sake i was giving toungue to the puerto rican girl....and lucky me my FRIEND WASNT THERE...so should i let her see me with more girls...or just pretend that there my friends...so she could see that i am not interested in anybody but here...help....**** EVERYTHING IN SITE...OR HOLD IT ..FOR MY FUTURE ONE-ITIS
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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but she played with my feelings maybe not meaning too
umm...highly doubt it. Most girls(their are the exceptions,but this is RARE) are AWARE that they are sending mixed signals.

but then i was so depressed..cried..you name it and then i remember everything i learn.
does not seem like you learned anything, if your willing to give her another chance. And it seems like she is up to the same old games.

she already had a boyfriend
and yet she wants to know who your with and who you came with.
why is she doing this; my guess she is messing with you

I just have one question?
is she really worth all this pain and drama??
 

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This black chick sounds like an idiot. Forget about her.

Yes, if you want to arouse her feelings, let her see you with the Puerto Rican girl. But still -- Forget about her. How many times is she gonna have to blow you off before you take the hint?
 

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remember that just because she isn't interested in you doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. Judging by your success with other ladies, rejecting you is her loss.

The only thing wrong with you is that you have chronic oneitis. Read the Bible and take a healthy dose of Pook.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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another thing

this girl which i am talking about...you could say i meet her like two weeks ago...and last saturday she ask me if i was going home after this..(i mean i mantain my coolness ) i guess...she was suggesting sex...but i am not saying i am a wuss or anything...but...i dont have feelings for her..should i let her know ..that ...we can do anything she wants but i really dont want any attachments..or do you think she already knows that..she seems like a nice girl...but i dont want to take advantage either...another thing see...theres like 4 more that have my phone number and i constantly maintain in touch with them...so i really dont know how this new girl its going to react when i tell her i just want...to **** but no feeelings involve...do you thing i am being honest...or just stupid..:crazy:
 

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its funny do..

my friend the black widow...makes me fell like she turn me into a male slut...:moon: lol......me trying so hard actually made me improve my game tremendously...
 

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or do you think

i am as self center as her...and shallow...and ego maniac...that just cuz she turn me down i am trying so hard...to impress...her....:kick: i know i sound like such a dum ass...but i dont know what i am thinking sometimes...i mean i can get em...(girls) but its that *****..that keeps staying in my mind...do you have a defenition of chronic one itis..?
 
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Reserve your oneitis for your wife!!!! Hors are plentiful and for everyone and thus are not to be oneitis material!!
 

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last man standing

so would do you suggest about the puerto rican..i am not saying i am innocent or anything..but thrutfullly i dont like playing with peoples feelings...so..should i tell her...you want to have relations...but i am not into the boyfriend girlfriend scene...you get me..or is that harsh...or worst...i just dont want to f u c k ....to f u c k ...or there something wrong with me..i mean i am reading that the more practice..you do the better you get at it...but worse what about if shes one of those crazy bitc hes that scratch your car...outside in the parking lot...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When a girl says "I have a b/f" nowadays - this means that she is having sex - thus she is in the hor category!!! you had a hold of her tonsils with your tongue and yet she tells you she has a "b/" -- such is the state of hors today!!! She doesn't have a "b/f" - she is toying with you!! She has many pimps - your actions will decide whether you will be the next pimp in line!!! Pursue her as the hor that she is - without reservations!!
 
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