"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey guys give me some field openers i could try

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I have been doing a lot of my own field openers, but i am getting bored and I want to expand my area of pick up and tie some loose ends. Give me any guys and yes and they can b really cheesy and stupid even!!!!!!!. I will do them on saturday, in both day game and night game, in both direct and indirect game. I am aiming for 100 approaches and i got a few of my own and goals that i am going to try and complete.

This will include:

5 hired gun approaches. (4 direct 1 indirect)

"my friend said u guys were kinda cute, but that he has feeling u cud b super evil seeing u get comes up to u a lot, so i just came to find out" (not so sure about this line might giv to much value, if so i will customize it again)

"hey i just need to ask u something, in ur opinion what is the better date idea.....blah blah" ask her out on the one she picked.

"what do u think is the best way to approach a girl direct or indirect"

(was looking at Incogs field experimintation journal he had some good ones) go in gay lol
among a few of his others.

Then. Donjoses one he suggested in direct game, even though i discovered my own way to do direct game i will give these a try.

1.If you see a straight up bombshell, i'm talking a ten:
"You are so beautiful....i'm going to talk to you right now/meet you/get to know you"

2.If you see a hot girl, almost a ten:
"I find you stunning....i have to talk to you know. I got no choice even if i tried to have one"

3. If you see a cute girl, you know which ones these are:
"You are sooo cute...look at you....time to meet you now"

HBK's Grand master sexy techniques in the night club (just because there ****ing hillarious) lol

Tims "hey i cudn't go on my day without meeting u"

Also going to take 10 routines from a routine book a friend gave me.

+observation openers i make on spot.

Guys u can give me some more!!!!!!!!

Espi: "hello"
"hi, hows ur day going"
lol this was not what u intended ironic huh
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i never ever asked a chick hows her day is going because honestly i don't care lol, but ironically u gave me something to try. this isn't neccesairly about getting the chick, i am just bored and felt i need to expand, so this is rather to entertain me.

All these canned openers will no longer b canned once i use them the next time, because well i don't go out there again and again using same lines, but if the oppurtunity comes where that opener makes perfect sense then ill use it, therefore it becomes natural in a way because i was not initally planning on doing it.
 

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i think this will b enough, but anymore openers is welcome, i am going with two puas and they r starting 10 am i might start bit earlier. this will b a 24 hour pick up session.

going for difficult sets, i pod, business, older woman, 3 sets+, running chick, cycling chick, shopping chick.

Btw don't think i am going to search for these girls, if they show up i will approach them, but i am sure there will b more difficult ones 2.
 

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24 hrs of pick up, you're going to be burnt up the next days!
All in the name of pick up HAHA SWEET DUDE!!

Try these:
"Hi I'm looking for..(pause)..actually Im looking for an excuse to talk to you"
"Hi. Are you single?"


If you feelin' adventurous:
"hows it going?" ...she responds...
You "Cool what are you doing later?"... she responds.
You "would you like to come home with me?"

Thats the apocalypse opener.

Have fun dude.
And if you complete this task you will have all my respect.
 

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do what RSD does and open by making animal noises

MOOOOOOOO!

or do a Ross Jefferies opener like standing in her way and screaming STOP!!!! as loud as you can

or open with a high five and see how long you can go without saying anything
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thanks guys keep them coming if u can, i am writing a check list lol
 

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Find a girl,stop her and look at her for a second or two then say...
"Wow.I think I'm falling helplessly,hopelessly, deeply in love with you.I dont know it just happens to me sometimes"

Ive posted it before on the forums but yeah.Originally from Chris Farely who did it in front of a girl in a mall in which it did make her laugh alot and then he transitioned it into a song.

You can also joke later about how cheesy it sounded or what not.It doesnt matter how stupid it sounds even if you confess you just made it up on the spot.She should laugh and should be attracted to you regardless
 

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if u mind, im sorry, rushdude.

but i don't really get the idea of openers. i think it is actually the psychology behind it that works.

suppose when you are using something like "hey (pause and look at her for some time) i'm so falling in love with you now, i don't know i'm like this at times".... you are presenting yourself in a playful and entertaining way, just being an entertainer to her and super hot women would love that but not be interested, my personal experience. quality women want a direct and genuine opener like 'hi (pause) just noticed you as i passing by (pause) had to come and meet you, i'm x' and if she reciprocates, you are IN! that's it. if you think deeper, you would know the difference between direct and indirect approaches. suppose, there is a group of girls, standing, now whether you go indirect or direct, the game starts even before you open your mouth, and if she is really not interested in a relationship, she would not be anyways. the only prob with a direct approach is that they sometimes scare women off or triggers their autopilot response. indirect openers or approaches don't do that.

enough ranting, my personal fave is 'hi' and just going with the flow from there.
 

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619: I always wanted to do a song one, but my voice is bad, fawk it thats one of my goals lol. I will definetly give ur opener a go, probs on random chick walking my way.

schttrj: And yeh it has to b genuine and the way how i perform it would b genuine, so i could b totally serious or just saying it for a joke. I know the follow up is more important, but i am going to do these openers and then just from there c where i go with it. Its not the opener that makes the person, its the person that makes the opener.
 

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Hey musab, i got some plans for these women already, but might steal ur "giv me a ride one" and when i said business woman, i ment women in suit office/manager type. But I liked the shop one also, that could be my way of a direct approach on a hired gun. I will c how this one goes and if ur ever in london again and decide to do this, ill giv u a heads up in case u might wanna come along.

I was having a mu tai fight with one of my friends and he accidently head butted me has we went down and i busted my lip, which kinda sucks, but i will still continue.

I am going to b writing things down for tommorow and reading a few articles, probs "weapons of mass seduction".
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Each of us have our own styles. You have to be original. I think yours is more aggressive, but I never tell a ten she's beautiful, unless I have some neg follows it.

There is no wrong way approaching a girl, the only thing that is wrong is if you don't have guts to do it.

Mine is mostly indirect, and depends on where I am at. Here is one story from the other day at the library

She was doing her stuff at square desk in opposite of me.

Me holding up 2 magazines, "Hey, do you think I look better reading this book or this book?"

Now, if I was at a party, it would be different.
 
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Chuchu i know what ur saying but i am just experimenting a few unknown areas. Just getting some concrete first before i start chipping what i like and don't like.

Guys i went out and did 60 approaches so far, i cudn't do all of them but ill paste the ones i didn't get chance to do.

Hired guns (4 direct).....o thats going to b fun.....


"my friend said u guys were kinda cute, but that he has feeling u cud b super evil seeing u get comes up to u a lot, so i just came to find out"

(was looking at Incogs field experimintation journal he had some good ones) go in gay lol
among a few of his others.

HBK's Grand master sexy techniques in the night club (just because there ****ing hillarious) lol, hbk u got lots of balls i cudn;t bring myself to do it, but ill get another go.

"Hi. Are you single?" (rocky did ur other 2, but i didn't do the most basic one lo, but i done the r u single one before...dam i loved getting rejected in those days loll)

Noob i didn't get chance with some of these sets except i pod girl and o i pod girl is a *****....... lmao
 
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