“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bigdave17

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You’re very single. You’re at a public place. Let’s say a grocery store. Wherever you shop. You're average looking. Not great. Maybe a 7 on a scale 1-10. You're well groomed. Well dressed. Don't come off as being intimidating or weird or awkward or a murderer or anything. You approach and says something super simple. Nothing witty. No fancy pickup lines. Just confidently says something like “hey, sorry to bother you, I’m Chris and I think you’re pretty. If you’re single could I take you out sometime or meet up for a drink?”

How do the girls respond? How many of them will give you a chance and how many blow out instantly?
 

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“hey, sorry to bother you, I’m Chris and I think you’re pretty. If you’re single could I take you out sometime or meet up for a drink?”

How do the girls respond? How many of them will give you a chance and how many blow out instantly?
If you actually read the DJ bible you'd know that this wouldn't work.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You’re very single. You’re at a public place. Let’s say a grocery store. Wherever you shop. You're average looking. Not great. Maybe a 7 on a scale 1-10. You're well groomed. Well dressed. Don't come off as being intimidating or weird or awkward or a murderer or anything. You approach and says something super simple. Nothing witty. No fancy pickup lines. Just confidently says something like “hey, sorry to bother you, I’m Chris and I think you’re pretty. If you’re single could I take you out sometime or meet up for a drink?”

How do the girls respond? How many of them will give you a chance and how many blow out instantly?
Don't apologize for bothering her. It's about what you are feeling, first and foremost. You see something you want and you go get it. No apologies. Approach indirectly and start off building rapport. Use your senses and be aware of her and your surroundings to latch onto to get the conversation going. For example, if she's wearing a graphic tee of a band you like or grocery products even. Bullchit with her like she was one of the boys, but project sexual body language. Looking at her lips, neck, glance overs, manipulate proximity, but be mindful of frequency and her ioi's. Women will pick up on the most subtle of body language. The more experience, the better you will be able to calibrate. I've opened quite a bit with just saying, I think you are attractive and want to get to know you. I've closed that way and been blown out that way. If you say it, own it like a mfr. Women will sniff out scared in a second. The only thing I've noticed about success/fail rates with opening that way, is that it seems I do better in party settings, where I've already established my presence, but I'm usually working on a buzz and don't care to make correlations anyways. To answer your question, yes it works. Sharpen your skills by talking to everyone. No hot women around, bullchit with little old grannies about recipes. Strive to have conversations that leave you smiling. Seems without fail you turn the corner of the aisle and a hot chic meets you oncoming and mirrors your smile more often than not. There's half your battle won right then and there. Talk to everyone!
 

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You’re very single. You’re at a public place. Let’s say a grocery store. Wherever you shop. You're average looking. Not great. Maybe a 7 on a scale 1-10. You're well groomed. Well dressed. Don't come off as being intimidating or weird or awkward or a murderer or anything. You approach and says something super simple. Nothing witty. No fancy pickup lines. Just confidently says something like “hey, sorry to bother you, I’m Chris and I think you’re pretty. If you’re single could I take you out sometime or meet up for a drink?”

How do the girls respond? How many of them will give you a chance and how many blow out instantly?
if she finds you really attractive at first sight you've got good odds

but if you're that much of a chad then you'd be teaching DJ school more or less
 
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