"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hey guys a little help here?

well hello there

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alright so im new to the forum and i need a little help im dating one girl but i met another girl and i fell in love with the other girl. when you fall in love with a girl do you basically loose all sexual appeal for other girls besides her? because just talking to her about it can give me a stiffy but some times when im actually with the girl im dating its slow and not meaning full. so the question is when you fall in love with a girl do you only have sexual appeal for her if you really do truly love her?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No sir you do not only have sexual desire for just her. As red blooded males, we are naturally programmed to get "excited" whenever we see a great rack no matter who it is. It doesn't mean that you're in love, it just means that you're healthy and your eyes and "equipment" still works. Now you'll have to make a choice, once you have a girlfriend, you've made the decision to sacrifice all other girls for this one.

As for love, everyone explains it different but a good way to know if she's a keeper if you like talking to her as much as you like banging her, if not more (a stretch I know! Please don't stone me!). But that more or less should be a good measuring stick.
 

apocolipto

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well hello there said:
your right, i choose the one i think i love there is no reason to put my self through it
Lol.The irony.Made me laugh
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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