"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey Guuuuuuuuuuuuuuuys, All B.s. Aside

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No field tonight. But I got one of my FBs coming over later. Does that count?

-Scars
 

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Upside said:
B1tches be crazy. I'd rather watch baseball with a cold beer in my hand...for tonight at least.
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naw but on the real note homie I understand I have to work tomorrow (****ty 4 hour ****, ****ing aaaaaaaa) But tonight is Latina night and I'd be stupid not to go out when the baddest stallions will be out on top of that Fridays for some reason there arent any gay bachlorette parties
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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women haze

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I need to party with Solomon WHAT IT DO HOMIE!!!!
 

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I went out today already. lol I envy those with non-redneck bars/clubs to go to. :)
 

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irocknike23 said:
lmao @ the OP is this like your first time ever going out?
Lol My first time of August 26th 2011 then sure, but you talking to a vet whose gone out 300 times in 3 years mate :rockon:


women haze said:
I need to party with Solomon WHAT IT DO HOMIE!!!!
For schizzel mate, once I lose this weight Imma be a problem again

Yo'Mama said:
I'm rolling out solo tonight. Wish me luck.
You gonna kill'em dead fam, just go out there and do what it do its easier then KBJ's on here want you to belive

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Solomon said:
Lol My first time of August 26th 2011 then sure, but you talking to a vet whose gone out 300 times in 3 years mate :rockon:
lol if you say so...i never seen anyone get so excited that they have the need to go on this site and tell everyone about it...

Vets just do it

Rookies brag..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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irocknike23 said:
lol if you say so...i never seen anyone get so excited that they have the need to go on this site and tell everyone about it...

Vets just do it

Rookies brag..

Where is this rule book that states what vets must and must not do just means the guy is enjoying the f**k out of life and you got a stone face thinking you a vet. Yet you dry as the Sahara brah, need some lotion brah!!!:woo:
 

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yeah, im hitting up town tonight. Last night was dead and I expect tonight to be slow too since the rain will keep all the lazy people inside.

I am meeting co workers, friends, and randoms out! Gotta step up my game from last night which was sub par at best The focus on approaches is more confidence than last night which didn't help my case. Wasn't feeling it. Everyone has ebs and flows to their game, and mine is ebbing a bit. Tonight should prove to be a marked improvement!
 

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Asasione said:
Where is this rule book that states what vets must and must not do just means the guy is enjoying the f**k out of life and you got a stone face thinking you a vet. Yet you dry as the Sahara brah, need some lotion brah!!!:woo:
how am i dry "brah"?

and theres no rules brah. its just that its a common for vets to just do it brah cause thats what vets do brah cause their used to it brah. rookies get excited and got to tell the world brah.
 

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lol if you say so...i never seen anyone get so excited that they have the need to go on this site and tell everyone about it...

Vets just do it

Rookies brag..
:kick:

When you got 2,500 approaches under your belt youngun then we can talk about you being a vet

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Solomon said:
:kick:

When you got 2,500 approaches under your belt youngun then we can talk about you being a vet

:crackup:
whatever you can keep talking..rookie
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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