"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My name's Paper Boy! I'm 17 years old and I like to play basketball! I don't drink or do drugs because it's not good for you! I don't have problems with people who do because it's your choice and it's really none of my business. I wouldn't argue with someone about it, I'd just state the facts. I'm not afraid to be proud and stand up for my beliefs even when other people think it's "uncool"! I know I'm cool and that's all that matters!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Paper Boy said:
My name's Paper Boy! I'm 17 years old and I like to play basketball! I don't drink or do drugs because it's not good for you! I don't have problems with people who do because it's your choice and it's really none of my business. I wouldn't argue with someone about it, I'd just state the facts. I'm not afraid to be proud and stand up for my beliefs even when other people think it's "uncool"! I know I'm cool and that's all that matters!
The facts are out there.
 

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Paper Boy said:
I don't drink or do drugs because it's not good for you!
I would never fault you for what you choose to do or not to do, but for your own sake, get all of the facts available and make a choice based on that, not just some of the facts that the socially conservative feed to you.

Drinking or drug use recreationally will never be good for your health, it's not nearly as bad as people have been lead to believe when used responsibly, intelligently, and moderately. Plus, people's health had almost nothing to do with the initial banning of most drugs anyway. Most early 20th century drug legislation was a method of racial social control.

Here's an interesting watch for you....
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-3653114296815352489&q=penn+teller+drugs&hl=en
 

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actually stuides have proven that a glass of wine with your meal can be very healthy ....
so its not that NOT taking any drugs or alcohol is good and healthy , its that knowing how to take them in portions is good and healthy.....

lot of people in todays society take too much too fast , like here in norway i see people in rush to drink on friday nights ,they pour it into theyr bodies as fast as possible to get high , while I, enjoy my drink slowly and i know when to stop , because im not really interested in getting hammered more interested in getting a buzz but staying in control........
 

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Reminds me...a week ago I was on the bus, these two kids were talking about how they found a cigarette and wanted to smoke it. So I leaned over and told them that all the cool kids smoked.

They believed me, got off the bus, and last I saw they were heading into the 7-11 to buy a lighter.

I've never felt so evil! :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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diplomatic_lies said:
Reminds me...a week ago I was on the bus, these two kids were talking about how they found a cigarette and wanted to smoke it. So I leaned over and told them that all the cool kids smoked.

They believed me, got off the bus, and last I saw they were heading into the 7-11 to buy a lighter.

I've never felt so evil! :D
You're sick, lol.
 

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Paper Boy said:
I'm not afraid to be proud and stand up for my beliefs even when other people think it's "uncool"! I know I'm cool and that's all that matters!
You sound like one of those kids who has just watched a really poor do-gooder motivational video at school and taken it a bit too much to heart...
 

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You sound like one of those kids who has just watched a really poor do-gooder motivational video at school and taken it a bit too much to heart...
Wow, that could not have been put, any unfunnyer.
 

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This thread is pointless. You sound like a nerd. No joke.


I don't drink very often and I refuse to do drugs. As good as weed smells, and as tempting as it is, I've had some personal expiriences that have turned me off from it.

Now, I've read in MANY places that an alcoholic beverage (one, not a binge) is actually relatively safe and beneficial for you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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