"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey fellows!

djbr

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Off for a while... yaaaay great things happened!

My life is amazing right now. Nothing in this world beat the power of options... trust me. Better yet, trust RT, the MAN! I didn't know I could do so WELL... as soon as I could drop a woman in a heartbeat and go after another, stuff happened. In fact, it's going to happen just today... and happened yesterday, and will happen tomorrow. And I thought I was ugly... :cheer:

Is tittyman still around?

I know that RT is still here. Now I have to catch up with all his material!

:wave: to all!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mr. Wolf

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That's 365 chicks per year man. You're like me, aiming for a thousand, don't you.
 

djbr

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Well, we do our best, you know... :yes:

Now seriously, I may have to cut off a little on this thing, I have work to do!! And 2 hours/day/chick is a LOT of time!

:cheer: to everyone!
 
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