Walking Anomaly
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Hey all, Hows life?
Anyway, i have two questions. The first, which i do not know if it has been gone over before, and if it has, i apologize. My question is this:
When you are dealing with a Long Distance Relationship, what are your opinions on the amount of contact that should be involved over the phone since one lives far enough away that you can not see them on a regular basis? a few times a week?
and my second is this:
I was recently talking to a girl on the phone that i have known for a while so we have somewhat more than a friendly relationship, kissing and such.
Anyway, i call her back after her calling me and me not being available, and i learn that she had talked to another guy before i called her back.
No problem.
During the conversation though, while i was teasing and busting on her, she called me by the other guys name. Needless to say, this pissed me off some, but i didnt let it bother me. All i said was that it was "F**ked up" that she did that. She apologized. I didnt let it bother me because im confident that it was an accident and it was only because she was just talking to him before i called.
On a side note: if it is because she likes him, i have learned that he is a pathological liar and a coke-head as well, which don't help his chances at all.
Anyway, im probably overanalyzing, and i just wanted to know how to deal with it when she calls me, because after that stunt, i am not being the one to contact her first.
My thought is to just play like it doesnt bother and project even more confidence, because since it isnt really official that we are a couple, letting it bother me would show that i might care a bit more than i should, or more than she does, which if i did i would not want to admit before she does.
This is how my head has broken it down.
Any thoughts? criticisms? constructive ideas?
Much appreciated
Thanks People
Anyway, i have two questions. The first, which i do not know if it has been gone over before, and if it has, i apologize. My question is this:
When you are dealing with a Long Distance Relationship, what are your opinions on the amount of contact that should be involved over the phone since one lives far enough away that you can not see them on a regular basis? a few times a week?
and my second is this:
I was recently talking to a girl on the phone that i have known for a while so we have somewhat more than a friendly relationship, kissing and such.
Anyway, i call her back after her calling me and me not being available, and i learn that she had talked to another guy before i called her back.
No problem.
During the conversation though, while i was teasing and busting on her, she called me by the other guys name. Needless to say, this pissed me off some, but i didnt let it bother me. All i said was that it was "F**ked up" that she did that. She apologized. I didnt let it bother me because im confident that it was an accident and it was only because she was just talking to him before i called.
On a side note: if it is because she likes him, i have learned that he is a pathological liar and a coke-head as well, which don't help his chances at all.
Anyway, im probably overanalyzing, and i just wanted to know how to deal with it when she calls me, because after that stunt, i am not being the one to contact her first.
My thought is to just play like it doesnt bother and project even more confidence, because since it isnt really official that we are a couple, letting it bother me would show that i might care a bit more than i should, or more than she does, which if i did i would not want to admit before she does.
This is how my head has broken it down.
Any thoughts? criticisms? constructive ideas?
Much appreciated
Thanks People
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