"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hey everybody!

inasilentway93

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hey guys my name is Abel im 19 and live in new york city, been lurking around these forums for a few months. sick of being a loser when it came to girls, and life in general barely any friends, pretty much the product of laziness and pity. and yes im a virgin, im gonna change that... my weight has been holding me back but im in the process of losing it. anyway hope im welcome and if u have any tips on life in general very appreciated thanks.......abel
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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goundra

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this silly place aint got a search feature, or I'd tell you to hunt up all my posts. what's your current weight and height, please?Most guys need to be 10% body fat, or less, to look good and also need to build a lot of muscle. You are still very young, don't sweat it, I was a virgin until age 26 and should have waited longer, as it turned out. she was married and a flake, but i was hung up on her for years, almost ruined my life, in fact.
 
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