"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hey everybody, im new posting.. but

pipe007

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JEJE hey watsup everybody, before everybody starts treating me as a quote "newbie" dont do that.. :)

its my first time posting here because i realize the impact it will have on my journey to having such great people like all of you commenting on my progresses. my name is piero, and i want to say i am ready to get tHIs part of my life handled once for all.

ive been in the community for a while say a year and a half, and i can say i have read all the main books and cd programs out there, so my knowledge is great, yes the dj bible included... twice! jEJEJE so dont just send me to that link :)

my success ratio is normal, ive messed it up with the last 5 girls i met by acting needy and afc, calling sending text message and telling them i like them.... really! in the past 2 months. but i got exited at the end of the fifth girl that was being cold and distant for my niceness and needines, i was like holly cow, all women are the same, they play hard to get to guys who act like wussies. why? i know but it doesnt make sense, so am ready to trow all that sH1t outside all my old ways of thinking about women, and i am ready to become someone new. please help me in my way as ill start posting and i want to become soo good, my next posts will be about helping somebody else improve their game......

thanx :)
joung jedi on his path...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Welcome to the family... You're a better person already...

Voice, out.

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It's all about self-control. Some do play hard to get, especially the attractive ones - it does weed out the guys that fall hard and fast (which most do). If you can get her pursuing as much or more than you are her, you're on your way to fullfillment with her.
 
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