"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey, Eric, how does a ho talk?

ER!C L!VE

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Well, lemme tell ya...

This woman is 30 and just sent me an email. I met her on myspace and banged her the first night we ever met in person. College educated woman too. Her myspace profile doesn't even hint that she's a slut.

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I want to have sex with you while you are wearing your socks...but they have to be black...hope you are having a good night. By the way, if you are up for a back to back weekend, Sharon's 34th B-day is going to be celebreated on Sat. If you would like to go and hang out let me know...and I will give you details.

it could lead to a happy ending for both of us!!!
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So, if some of you older guys have a difficult time thinking of women as actually wanting sex or being forward about it, then re-read that email. That's not the first one I've received like that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE

I met her on myspace and banged her the first night we ever met in person. College educated woman too. Her myspace profile doesn't even hint that she's a slut.
A "slvt" because you banged her on the first night? Cmon dude you usually seem pretty cool, dont be another clueless society zombie. Your better than that.

Besides that, good stuff.
 

Luveno

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My experience has taught me that it is usually the more mature 30 something women who are more blunt about wanting to be rammed. I guess they feel that since gravity is taking its toll on them, they need to guarantee their sexuality to prospective men.

Funny how that works.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't think marriage is in tit guy's vocabulary to begin with...
 

Rollo Tomassi

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Sweet Mother Mary, why is it that marriage is this goal state? It's not as if that's even a consideration when you hit it with a girl the night you met her.

How many guys considering marrying a girl after an LTR say to themselves, "Well, I'd ask her if only she hadn't fvcked me on the first night"?

Gimme a break.
 
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