Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Thats a lot of crap right there. It is the multimillionaire executive directors of major music labels that have made music the commercial joke it is.DJ Logic said:50 Cent is a garbage rapper who sold out his culture and helped make hiphop one giant commercial.
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2qahe_50-cent-window-shopper_music
It disgusts me how he talks to his fans, selling a million dollar dream to people on welfare - basically telling them they aint sh-t without paper.
Real MCs like Mos Def, KRS-1 and Rakim DESTROY this guy.
KRS talking REAL sh-t, kicking positivity and knowledge at his people: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZFin4OQoxm4
Mos Def dropping serious poetry, now there is an artist! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m_lR5JkgCnU
Rakim, pioneer, innovator and STILL representing hiphop, WHAT? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GufYkzroatA
So what you gotta say to that fiddy? Oh you want us to look at your rims, and your chains n' b-tches? Wow, that is real thought-provoking sh-t right there
F-ck 50 cent and F-CK anyone who buys his music. You are killing hiphop by supporting with this superficial bullsh-t
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Jay-Z's flow isn't his strength, he's more of a lyricist than Eminem.DJ Logic said:I can dig Eminem, dude is a top-level lyricist, and Jay-Z is also pretty nasty with the flow (though I find his content pretty predictable/superficial too)
There is no way you can classify 50 cent as a joke. I see the angle you're aiming for too but there is no way. There is nothing fake or empty about 50 cent. He talks about business, money, girls and his broke times. If you don't like 50 then that is a matter of taste.DJ Logic said:Oh and for what it is worth, those record company execs wouldn't have a leg to stand on if they didn't have yes men who dictate word for word the message they want to sell to the masses. They would have no power if emcees told them to f-ck off. (See Immortal Technique for a perfect example of how to deal with these ass clowns)
I see the angle you're aiming for but you're wrong. This aint about Old vs New School, its about Fake vs True School. Problem is that most up and comers nowadays play by the industry rules which are shady as sh-t and have nothing to do with the advancement of hiphop as an artform. Sure all these rappers make "hits" and money but if that's all you care about then you are not supporting hiphop. You are down with Hip-POP
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Out of Context.ARrocket said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Not true. Strippers are entertainers and effectively pretenders. They dress up in seductive clothes to play a fantasy role and satisfy their clients.DJ Logic said:Entertainers are not pretenders by definition, unless they are actors - and at least with them you know it's just a role.
DJ Logic said:It's pretty straightforward - the Marines are not calling Stallone to lead their forces any time soon, I can assure you that.
By your own acknowledgement that they are from the suburbs talking about murders and drugs they never did re-iterates and reinforces that its entertainment. If you acknowledged that its fake i.e. suspected disbelief then you have acknowledged that its entertainmentDJ Logic said:The gansta rappers are the worst, half of these punks are from the f-cking suburbs talkin bout how they murder niggaz and move mad drugs around.
Whats the big deal. The fake gangsters or ex real gangster rappers are telling the truth, its entertainment. So you want Daniel Craig to tell the media that he is a real assassin. :crackup:DJ Logic said:Then they talk to the media and say "Oh, we are just entertainers" but when
By your own admission, today's rappers openly admit to it being entertainment in the Media. The mass Media is everywhere, TV, Radio, Internet etc so there is no excuse for the kids not to hear their rappers saying its entertainment first-hand.DJ Logic said:they talk to their fans it's supposed to be the real deal, and millions of kids listen to these messages over and over thinking that these niggaz aint playin.
So rappers don't get creative? When 50 cent released the Get Rich or Die trying album the message was 90% violence and he had few features outside of G-unit. But these days his message is only about 60% violent, has has more R&B hooks, love songs, and he is more willing to work with other artists. That is the definition of being creative! using a different formula to success.DJ Logic said:At least actors (the good ones anyway) have the dignity to take up new roles and be creative.
"one consitent image". I can remember snoop releasing numerous love songs. not just guns and murderDJ Logic said:A lot of these emcees talk the same bullsh-t and are basically selling one consistent image. sell are linked to you credibility. Look at Snoop Dogg, his album sold like hoEven if it is not rooted in reality, it's all about how "hard" you are, and the records you tcakes when he was on trial for murder. Heads everywhere dug his street cred and it made for record sales. They realized Snoop wasn't all talk and he got mad respect for that.
As established earlier, entertainers are supposed to front due the nature of the job. Why would somebody whom is paid to pretend do the real thing?DJ Logic said:The content ain't even the issue here. If you kill 10 niggas a week, move kilos of cocaine all the time and own 10 Bentleys, then that's who you are and I can't take away from your artistic expression. But if you don't do any of those things and are just fronting, then by definition you are a phoney ass b-tch, plain and simple.
DJ Logic said:So yeah, DAMN STRAIGHT I expect my rappers to be real and not on some poser sh-t. Just like I expect any musician I listen to to play from their soul, instead of what they think people want to hear. If I wanted fakeness, I'd be listening to Milli Vanilli right now. But in your book they were a legit act, because it's all entertainment, right?
Sorry about your cousin dude.DJ Logic said:But some dude with an audience of millions is going to provide the perfect soundtrack for drugs, violence and god knows what else. People always like to say that music cant influence folks but it's BS. My cousin is doing time right now for selling drugs and several assault charges. His favorite artists? 50, Biggie, Onyx. Not saying that listening to these guys will make you a criminal, but if you are a potential one this music will resonate and inspire you (and not in constructive ways)
Yeah, but who sends tons of gifts to an ex-gf?spider_007 said:Out of Context.
Even the article said it was around christmas, averybody gives gifts.
I'll give him the benefit of the dought.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.