"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey Dj's Your creative ideas needed! Everyone's welcome

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Long time everyone, Nice to see this place still functioning.


Here is the deal. Duo to some very unsual circumstances I have to move in a dorm. I have never lived in the dorms, but have been in college for a number of years - living in apartments and houses.

I am confident in myself that I can take care of most of the issues that will come up, but if any of you want to tackle specific dorm issues post em here - example - WEARING SLIPPERS TO THE SHOWER!


So here is an alternative focus. - I know the rooms are about as big as a fishbowl, and I want to make mine look quality (i.e nice) Ideas on what to put around the place are welcome - and remember, I have lived in college before, so this is somewhat dorm specific as well.


I will also give you this awesome tool to use for yet another focus - everyone check this out right now

http://homokaasu.org/rasterbator/wizard.gas?Phase=1

what this basically does is it allows you to take any picture you have and make it into a huge poster.

I am thinking about making a big one to put outside on my dorm room - this is the one I came up with so far. Who can beat me? Post your ideas.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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