"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hey DJ's be NICE!

frivolousz21

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I think its funny..how all these girls that want my nuts..have one thing in commen....they all say in So NICE..or sweet...even tho..im really not...but when your ****y and funny, or sarcastic, or confidence, arrogent, smooth..u know what im talking about!..then u say something incredibly sweet to them or do something nice...or just anything any man should do..they think the world of you.

how interesting? am I making since here
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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kind of...

people say girls dont like a nice guy...

i think alot of people here dont understand the whole, not being a "nice" guy thing...

people often mistake this and inturn decide to be arrogant, mean, and tease people in a deliberate effort NOT to be nice...

this isnt how it works, people like nice friendly people that they feel comfortable around... ive been there... i made this mistake and ive seen others make it...

be nice, just like frivolous is saying, be nice but with a backbone who can upset someone when he needs to...

its nice to be nice, girls dont like a nasty man...
 

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Be nice by nature not by strategy.

Nice can be a manipulation strategy just like anything else, and is pretty much always adopted by Chumps.

Nice, is used so much that girls associate 'nice' with needy, that's the problem.

The trick is to be nice as you would with anybody, the subtlety is communicating why you are nice. If that makes sense:confused:
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I think its funny..how all these girls that want my nuts..have one thing in commen....they all say in So NICE..or sweet...even tho..im really not
well a girl i know dumped her ex for not respecting her, even thou he was nice to her and never upset her or anything. I on the otherhand neg hit her, say stuff that she "cant belive i said" many times she would even say you have no respect for girls.

well i say to her, if you think he had no respect for you and thats why you do not like him, then you must hate me.

even thou she kept getting upset with me often and saying i have no respect.

when i said this she says "youll be suprised actuly, you have more respect for me then most guys do"

i ask how do you figure this and she says

"well you listen to me and ask me stuff"
 
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